Shooting From the Lip...It's a deadly game

Written by Oscar Bruce


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So what I call quick-draw, "shooting fromrepparttar lip" words or comments are opportunity killers. Although some try to fluff them off as just "misspeak" they are still irreversible disasters inrepparttar 128830 making. "Of course if your language tools are limited and your verbal options are in short supply, you are just shooting blanks. Your verbal options probably need expanding. Learning and crafting your message with new, powerful and influential words and phrases is a must in our "you don't get a second chance to make a first impression" world.

WHY DO SMART PEOPLE SAY STUPID THINGS?

It's all about habit.

Somewhere in our past we heard our habitual pop-off comments and thought they were clever. We adopted them into our speech patterns. But what you thought was clever may sound mean or smart-aleck to others. That favorite expression so carelessly thrown out could live on to haunt you for life.

SO WHAT'S THE SOLUTION? As Mark Twain said "The secret to good conversation is leaving outrepparttar 128831 wrong words."

Sorepparttar 128832 solution is simple, throw outrepparttar 128833 old and replace with a verbal upgrade. Acquire new alternative ways of expressing yourself. Make your conversations so powerful others want to be with you and give you your way. You'll be surprised what you can get when you ask for itrepparttar 128834 right way. Better words always make things better.

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The Author, Oscar Bruce is the ultimate personal communications guru. His dynamic books are considered the field manuals for mastering conversation and confrontations. His website offers several verbal strategies that can add power to your conversations.

HIS FREE NEWSLETTER "Talk Tips" is available at http://www.oscarbruce.com


It Takes All of Its Parts to Make a Car!

Written by Melvin Lewis Thomas


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Do not be concerned about wars and rumors of wars, about light workers or dark workers, about who is in spirit and who is incarnate. Know in your heart that all serve a useful function by providing counterbalanced control. All are safety mechanisms to bleed off unsafe energy when there is an excess and impetus when there is a deficit, allrepparttar while providing cohesive guidance for where we are going. Thus we are all on a journey together, asrepparttar 128828 parts of creation, motoring safely towards a new and brighter destination as one vehicle. It takes all of us to make this work. Be at peace within yourself and know thatrepparttar 128829 journey is safe andrepparttar 128830 destination assured. Then we make it as one. It takes all of its parts to make a reality!

About Melvin Lewis Thomas - I grew up in one ofrepparttar 128831 most beautiful places inrepparttar 128832 world, Sedona,repparttar 128833 heart of Red Rock Country in Arizona.

My college education molded me as a scientist with things as my subjects. Working at medical and human research laboratories, and as a teacher, shifted my focus to people. Eventually I became a metascientist and life became my focus, with reality my laboratory. That path led to this book. Alongrepparttar 128834 way I changed jobs and even careers when what I was doing was no longer of interest. I grasped it, then moved on: stepping-stones inrepparttar 128835 process of education;repparttar 128836 process never ends.

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