Secrets Your Husband/Significant Other Don't Want You to Know

Written by Marie Magdala Roker

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7.When His Voice Goes High, or He Answers a Question Withrepparttar Same Question, He’s Thinking of a Lie.

If you ask your man, “What You’d Do Today?’ and he replies “What I’d Do Today?” he’s probably thinking of lie. It doesn’t mean that he did something inappropriate, just something you wouldn’t approve of. Maybe, he left work early to hang out withrepparttar 122046 guys. If he told you this, you’d be upset because you had a long day at work or at home withrepparttar 122047 kids. The problem is he was having too much fun to think about if you would ask him that question, so he didn’t plan a lie beforehand.

8.Nothing is Wrong, So Stop Asking Him

Admit it, you see your man sitting quietly and you naturally assume something is wrong or has happened. So you ask, “What’s wrong?” and he replies, “Nothing, I’m just thinking.” Well, this answer doesn’t satisfy you, so you ask again throughoutrepparttar 122048 day, which leads to his frustration. Men reflect too! He was probably thinking about how he wants to change careers, if you are satisfied and happy with him, how he can make more money, how he doesn’t want to grow old and fat, or how he would really like to buy that sports car. Ask him once, and then leave it alone. If you really sense something is wrong, give him some time and talk to him when you both feel like talking.

9.Most Men are Conquerors and Most Women are Venters

You just told him about your horrible experience at work. You want him to comfort and console you; instead he gives you logical facts about how to solverepparttar 122049 problem. You feel cheated. You wanted to share your feelings aboutrepparttar 122050 day and all he wanted to do was fixrepparttar 122051 problem. Men like to offer solutions. Most men are not concerned about being in touch with their feelings when there’s a conflict. You want to feel understood; he wants to makerepparttar 122052 problem go away. He can’t relate to how you are feeling, so he does what he knows best, helps you to plan a solution.

10.He Wants to Feel Successful. A man needs to feel he has accomplished something in life, and often times that accomplishment is found in their jobs or careers. Men don’t like to feel conflicted between work and quality time with their families. To men, if they are working hard to earn money, this will improverepparttar 122053 quality of their family’s life.

Marie Magdala Roker is an Academic and Personal Development Coach and Certified Breakthrough Parenting Instructor who works with parents to help them unlock and nurture the personal and academic potential in their children and motivate their children to success. You can find her on the web at or

Handmade Bridal Shower Invitations Can Reflect the Shower’s Theme

Written by John Doetsch

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If you are having a dressy or formal shower, use heavy stock paper from a stationary shop and print out your handmade invitations on your PC. Today’s printing software packages include dozens of lovely fonts that you can coordinate for everything from place cards torepparttar bridal shower invitations themselves.

After printing them out, place a sheet of sheer vellum (available at craft stores) overrepparttar 122044 top and cut torepparttar 122045 same size. Punch two holes atrepparttar 122046 top and thread coordinating ribbon through, then tie in a bow. These are elegant and simple to make. You can choose ink and ribbon in colors to match your décor orrepparttar 122047 wedding party.

A personal touch is always nice on an invitation, so don’t forget to add a little something when you’re ready to mail them out. For formal invitations, scatter just a bit glitter in silver or gold inside to matchrepparttar 122048 trim. If you have a floral theme, find flower-shaped confetti and toss some in each envelope. Or if you’re having a luau, tuck a single silk bloom into each one. It’srepparttar 122049 little touches that make them special!

Melanie Doetsch is editor at where you will find further advice on planning a bridal shower. Have fun with our helpful information, bridal articles, wedding planning tips and much more.

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