In order to get what you Desire you need to develop a strong sense of self-discipline. You need to see and feel and believe that what you want will come true. I set an alarm clock by my desk to remind me to repeat my Statement of Desire, every 2 hours throughout day. I have a picture of it burned onto my brain so that I have created a Burning Desire. It gets to point where you no longer have to drive it, because it drives you.

In all my years of searching for answers to all my questions and looking for formula that would help me to help myself, this is one that consistently works for me. You will find that mechanics for realizing your Desire will come to you when you are willing to do what it takes to make it a Burning Desire.

If your Desire is to give your children best education you can, you will find that perhaps you learn that a prestigious college is offering scholarships for which you can apply or that an excellent teacher will be holding a summer school on ways to enrich your child, that is not offered at school. Perhaps you will get a windfall of money to help you send your child to a college that specializes in their field (drama, art etc) or have access to a previously unavailable source of learning materials that your child will love. Maybe a course will come along that will teach your child how to study more effectively and retain more. The possibilities are endless and they will come with Absolute Faith.

Create your Statement of Desire today!

Namasté Lisa van den Berg

He was very emotionally closed after an awful divorce and would not let me in, at first. Instead of harping on fact that he wouldn't talk (you know how a woman's gotta talk), I let him be and just showed him that I could be trusted beyond a shadow of a doubt. When he realized this, he opened up and now let's me know if there's an issue.

When he comes home from an awful day at office (you can just SEE it on their faces, can't you?), I kiss him hello and leave him alone until he is calmer and comes to talk to me. Similarly, if I am in a crying mood, he lets me rant and just listens for a while. When I'm done he kisses me and wipes my tears. We have both learnt that figuring out what is a highly charged emotional state in one of us, needs to be treated in a way that will soothe other person, in order to keep harmony.

He knows that if he doesn't let me rant, I will be in a BADDD mood for a year or two, and I know that if I nag when he needs to calm down, I'll get silent treatment for a year or two.

So it basically comes down to study of Human Behavior. You have choice of two consequences of your actions. Choose result you wish to have and then act in a way that will produce that result. Give all love you have to give and it will be returned manyfold.

We are as happy as we are because we work at it. Do a little something every day that will strengthen your relationship.

Based on this principle, may all your relationships go way you consciously direct them and love will continue to make world go round :-)