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The Reality A reward of slow suffocation, is it perhaps that we do not like ourselves enough to want to damage
very thing that carries us through life. In some cases it is like
experiment that was carried out in
1960's. It was called
Great Marshmallow experiment. It involved 100 4-6 year olds, they were individually placed in a room with 2 way mirrors. The tester would then place a single marshmallow in front on
child and tell them that he had to leave
room for a few minutes, if they did not eat
sweet, on his return they would receive 3 marshmallows as reward. 75 of
children ate
marshmallow almost as soon as
tester left
room. This experiment proved a human craving for instant reward. The same applies to smoking, It is instant and anything that happens after you smoke a cigarette seems to have no bearing on
last one but creates a need for
next one.
The first cigarette of
day is linked closely to
amount of anxiety you feel. The morning is
time when you are thinking about what is going to take place that day. The journey to work, will I be late, will I survive
busy roads. What will happen when I arrive at work, will my boss be in a good mood. Will there be work that is too difficult for me or will there be too much to do and not enough time. Most people will have run through their whole day before they even leave
house. This instils anxiety and because of
misunderstanding that exists in your mind about real and artificial anxiety created by
last cigarette you feel destined to smoke.
The last one at night is another myth. I used to think that I could not go to sleep without my cigarette but what was I thinking. Nicotine which is primarily a stimulant, was never going to be a calming agent, all it did was increase my breathing to cope with
lack of oxygen that in turn released endorphins that in turn made me tense. Not only that but all
carbon monoxide in my blood was slowly poisoning me. No wonder I woke up every morning with a headache and no wonder I thought I felt so bad because I needed another cigarette. Once you quit you will sleep soundly, you will wake refreshed. As life intended it to be.
The issue of mealtimes is a strange one for me, I too would have agreed with
statement above regarding a cigarette being like another course however I now know differently. What could be nicer than eating your favourite food and then being able to savour and taste it for a long time after eating it. When you smoke all you are doing is replacing that lovely experience with
rancid taste of cigarettes. It seems to me that for any smoker having a meal is an inconvenience and
food is somehow just in
way. All you want to do is get
food out of
way to get to
cigarette. It does not enhance a meal it destroys it. Then there is
matter of waiting for everyone to finish before lighting up and even then you may have to leave
table and your company and have a cigarette, missing conversation and enjoyment all for a selfish act like smoking.

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