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If we have financial problems, we worry about retirement, mortgage, 401k, just paying bills. We ruminate about worst that could happen. We fear possible losses. We develop anxiety and ulcers. Existing illness worsens.
If we feel angry about past events, our parents or our former spouse, we think about injustices, we fan flames. We ruminate, become resentful and bitter. Dangerous stress hormones pour into our system. We develop heart disease or gastrointestinal problems.
Of course it’s always easier to run to gym and work out, rather than run home and work out our problems.
It’s easier to sit in corner by ourselves and meditate, rather than sit at financial counselor’s office and struggle to work out a budget.
What can you do? Gather your courage and identify and face specific issues that are causing stress in your life. You can reduce stress, enhance relationships, simplify your life and feel healthier and happier.
Follow these four steps to live a healthier, happier life.
1.Identify source of problem.
2.Decide what needs to be done to resolve problem.
3.Develop a step-by-step plan to achieve desired goal.
4.Follow through one step at a time.
If you need help with any of steps, get it. There are excellent resources in area to help you with any problem that may be causing you stress. Determine for 2004 to begin a new life with less stress and more fun.
©Pat Swan, M.S., Life and Relationship Coach, http://www.RelationshipSkillville.com . Pat is a speaker, and author of “Watch Out! Your Relationships Can Be Hazardous to Your Health,” available at http:// www.StopRelationshipStress.com . Stop relationship stress and discover secret remedies for better health. Mailto:pat@patswan.com . PH: 262-642-5706.