SHE REJECTED YOU:some reasons why it happened -what you can do...

Written by Lucy Nadia Muyemba


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HOT TIP: When you ask a lady what she 'wants to do', you put her in control. Most women DO NOT LIKE THIS. It makes them well uncomfortable. * If you can't make up your mind about where to take her, and then wind up taking her to her favourite cafe, you have failed.Why? You have shown that you CAN'T LEAD. *Remember to always treat your girlfriend / date well. So - what kind of men are women attracted to? ~Men who LEAD. Men who are in control of themselves and situations. ~Men who MAKE DECISIONS and stand by them. (This is why you can ask a girl what she wants and take her to her favourite cafe / club tell her how you feel about her and watch as she loses interest in you.) ~Men who treat them well but don't allowrepparttar woman to control them. ~Men who show respect for women enough to take no for an answer. ~Men who look after their personal hygiene and grooming ~ Men who show interest inrepparttar 123055 lady - as a person not as a sex object. The list goes on. CONCLUSION: Attraction is not like other areas of life.It just happens. Guys, being too 'nice' won't earn you any more points. Attraction seems to be triggered by things that make no sense at all and can be easily destroyed.Over to you... 2004 copyright.

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Finding Peace: A Taste of Mindfulness

Written by Deva Ratnakara


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We always sympathize withrepparttar unhappiness and sorrow of others. We help people allrepparttar 123054 time, and this is good and kind of us. But we fail to realize that we ourselves are suffering. Everything that happens inrepparttar 123055 world affects us all. The relentless desire for more of everything is a driving factor that leaves behind unhappiness and discontentment.

We know this. We feel it in our hearts.

In order to relieve ourselves of this suffering, we must first learn how to still our minds. There are many special mindfulness meditation techniques that have been practiced by thousands of people with tremendous benefits. The key is to remember that you are your own master. When you start practicing mindfulness, little by little you will be able to clear your mind of your continuous racing thoughts. You must attain this stillness in order to clearly see and understand your limiting thoughts and self-constructed obstacles to peace and harmony. With practice, you will be able to come to this still and clear state of mind and overcome your mental ailments completely.

Here’s a simple exercise that will give you a taste of mindfulness meditation, which is often called vipassana meditation. Find a peaceful place—your bedroom, veranda, garden, or even your office. Sit in a comfortable position keeping your spine erect so that you can breathe easily. Close your eyes if you like, or simply allow them to develop a soft, unfocused gaze.

Now, breathe deeply and completely for a few minutes, focusing your mind onrepparttar 123056 flow of your breath. Allow your body to relax while keeping your back straight. Watch your breath as it goes in and out, in and out. As you concentrate on your breath, you will notice that your mind becomes more settled. Your breath will become smooth and even. Continue in this state for several minutes, and finish your meditation with several deep breaths.

By practicing this simple exercise, you will train your mind to become still. Continuous sessions of mental calm will bring you deeper clarity and a greater understanding ofrepparttar 123057 source of your mental suffering.

See it. Recognize it. Focus on releasing it.

Finding peace in your nation begins with finding peace in yourself. Let’s work on peace as individuals, and create greater harmony together. We could all benefit from a taste of mindfulness.



Deva Ratnakara has been teaching yoga and mindfulness for more than 20 years. He lives in Sri Lanka where he is the head of a 500-member meditation group. To learn about his yoga and mindfulness retreat scheduled for February 2005 in Sri Lanka, visit http://truemindfulness.org


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