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What can you list on your registry? If you can buy it, you can list it. Typical registries list transportation, lodging, activities, special amenities, and meals. Expensive items are usually broken down so guests can choose to pay only a portion of
item. For example, a honeymoon registry might list 10 gifts of $100 each toward your $1000 airfare expense.
Some honeymoon registries allow you to personalize your registry with a message to your guests and descriptions of
different parts of your honeymoon, perhaps even allowing you to upload pictures to
registry.
3. Announcing
honeymoon registry Once your registry is set up, you need to let your wedding guests know that it exists. Many registries will provide you with printed cards announcing
registry and its web address; you can either mail them with
wedding invitation or separately. Some registries will e-mail your wedding guests if you provide their addresses.
The more tactful approach is to let your guests know about your registry indirectly. Let your parents, close friends, or wedding party members know that you have a honeymoon registry; they can pass
word along to guests. Or create a wedding web page with up-to-date information for guests, and include a link to your registry on that page. You can then list
address of your wedding web page in your invitation without directly bringing up
issue of gifts.
4. Buying gifts from
honeymoon registry Guests look up your registry by typing your last name(s) into a search box on
registry website. After reading what you want, they click on
item(s) they want to buy and pay for
items over
website. Most registries also allow guests to purchase items by phone.
The gift-giver usually receives a certificate that is either sent to
wedding couple or to
giver (to hand on to
couple in person); some registries charge a fee to mail this certificate. Other registries notify
couple of
gift by e-mail. On any registry, you can track how many gifts you have received simply by logging into
registry.
It's important to note that most registries require guests to pay a service charge for
privilege of contributing to your honeymoon. The service charge is a percentage of
cost of
gift;
registries we surveyed had service charges ranging from 3.5% to 15%. So if a guest wants to pay $100 toward your airfare and
honeymoon registry website imposes a 10% service charge, she will end up spending $110.
5. Paying for
honeymoon The wedding couple are ultimately responsible for paying for their honeymoon expenses. That means that any portion of
honeymoon that must be paid prior to
wedding (airfare, room deposits and so on) comes out of your pocket. Some or all of those expenses might be picked up by your guests, although most couples' honeymoon expenses are not completely covered by their registry. It's wise not to plan a more extravagant honeymoon than you can pay for yourselves.
Whatever money wedding guests contribute toward
honeymoon is placed in a holding account. The registry sends
couple a check (or electronically deposits
funds into their account) on a predetermined date, usually a week before
wedding. Even though
wedding guests paid for certain parts of
honeymoon,
couple is really free to use
money for anything they want.
6. Thanking guests It's important to write thank-you notes to guests who bought part of
honeymoon (just as you would write thank-you notes for any wedding gift). It might actually be fun to thank guests for
honeymoon, though, because you can describe your experience in
note—you might even include a picture.

Jerry Windley-Daoust runs the Creative Honeymoon Ideas website, where you can learn more about honeymoon registries, including a side-by-side comparison of six popular honeymoon registries.