Having been involved with team building and network marketing for some time, I have come to adopt following as my operating credo..."if you have desire and are willing to put in effort, I'll pull you along so you can go faster down road to success, but if you don't want move on your own, I'm not going to waste my time trying to push you forward".

Its like working with a length of chain...pulling it along works fine, but trying it push it forward only results in a pile of frustration.

You need to be able to distinguish between people that have a legitimate interest in developing a home based business and those lost souls that feel that they have just joined another chat group and only want to engage in an endless "debate" about virtues of whatever business you are promoting, but never actually had any intention of establishing a business...you will have to develop your own method of reading people like this (its mainly a sense of feel...sort of a belly button thing).

You can help someone reach for success...but you can't reasonably expect to make them want to be successful. Its just another variation of that very old and tired cliche...that "you can lead a horse to water, but you can't make it drink".

Another way of looking at it is if you are trying to move people forward, you pull them from in front (a leadership position), but if you have to push them it will be from behind (not a position of leadership).

Then a few days went buy, and I got an e-mail from sponsor, that said: “Thanks for posting to our site; you are now signed up for newsletter, and once a month this site will be e-mailed to you.” Wait, does this mean all who post on site get an e-mail monthly? Was this another extra benefit? Yes, I get to post my ad, and they e-mail to everyone who posted any type of information to site. I realized I had just been introduced to Co-op Marketing. My thirst for more grew into an obsession.

That’s when I discovered over 190 web sites that allow my ad. All of web sites now link to my site. Talk about search engine boost. Our site www.thirdpocket.com is now number 1 on Google, Yahoo, AOL, AltaVista and MSN all for FREE! Our site went online in March of this year.

I decided world needs to know about this type of marketing, and I wrote e-book called “Marketing in Vegas for Free on Over 190 Web Sites.” Yes, here’s where I get paid for my technical expertise. The book is only $9.95 plus tax. This book is not just a list of web sites. It is also an Internet Marketing book, giving you tips and tricks on how to place an ad; so you can optimize your placement on search engines.

Even our cookie cutter site from our MLM business has climbed to #3 and #4 position in search engines, using this type of FREE advertising. For $10.00, you may save thousands in return.