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Here are 5 reasons you might not be deciding to take action when it comes to deciding whether you should get a divorce or stay married:
1. You know that
severity of divorce is something not to be taken lightly so you avoid that "potential" outcome by doing nothing.
I assure you, if you realize that divorce is serious, you're ahead of game because it means that you will do what it takes to change your situation!
2. You haven't decided to take action because you think you actually do want a divorce, and you think that divorce can create emotional scars that take a long time to heal.
3. You know that, whatever outcome, you're really not ready to face a potentially painful end result, so you avoid situation all together.
4. You are just flat out scared to make a decision about divorce because you know that making this difficult decision will involve profound change and deep "self-examination". And, like most of us, you want to avoid pain and discomfort that goes with that.
5. You just don't know where to start because you are confused due to emotional complexities of situation. You really don't know how you feel.
All are these are valid points, but they are really just excuses to do nothing.
And, if you do nothing, problem will still remain. And that problem is "indecision".
You haven't committed to decide. If any of these things are keeping you from making a decision about whether to stay married, you're doing more harm to yourself than good. In fact, by doing nothing, you are only compounding your problem. You are contributing to your own unhappiness by not taking action and that is just flat out unhealthy!
The first stage to going through process of deciding whether or not to get a divorce, is to overcome your fear of potential outcome and embrace this 'emotionally driven' process. Defining your fears and identifying why you aren't making decision, or at least starting decision making process about getting a divorce or staying married, is only way you will be able to reach your ultimate goal…making a final decision to either get divorced or try to work it out.
Author of "A Practical Guide To Deciding Whether Or Not To Get A Divorce", the eBook recommended by counselors to thier clients. Proven "Actions Items" to help you decide! http://www.deciding-on-divorce.com
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