Unfortunately when outcome changes, sometimes person getting reading is disappointed and angry and will lash out at psychic, more often than not leaving bad feedback or telling others that psychic was leading them on or lying etc. This makes it easy to understand why sometimes a psychic will not change reading once they have given you a certain outcome. You as a seeker cannot blame psychic, and psychic should not be made to feel or believe they need to blame themselves. That is just sometimes God's plan and no matter how desperately we want and need answers, sometimes some things are just not meant to be known until we have lived through them.

The best way to avoid this heartache at all times is learn how to be in control of your own life. Learn how to get in touch with yourself and your own intuition. Learn how to take what seems like a hopeless situation and make it into something good. Every experience is a learning experience. If you are heartbroken because a man or a woman has left you, you have lost your job, your life is in a shambles or you are confused and scared, start searching within yourself for answers. If you are going to look to others for answers and help, make sure you are finding people that empower you. People that give you advice on how to deal with yourself and your life, not how to change or control others. Seek out books and people that tell you how to manifest real positive changes in your life, not how to just 'survive' through it.

Find a psychic reader that you feel comfortable with, that proves their abilities to you and stay with them. I always recommend my clients get a second or possibly even a third psychic to look at their situation, but not a million more!

In any situation in life we always need to maintain our own power, even when there are other human beings involved. Getting answers from a psychic can be wonderful and if you have chosen right reader that is highly accurate, ethical and empowering. Please do not become dependant on psychics! In fact, do not become dependant on anybody. We all need a helping hand and advice in our lives, but we also need to learn to make our own decisions and choices and be responsible for them.

In regards to how often you get a reading. Go by questions you are asking. If you are given a reading with particular time frames and a general outcome, It's best that you allow this time to pass and events to play out! In other words if your psychic gets that an outcome will not manifest for approximately 3 months, wait 3 months! Feel free to consult another reader of course for confirmation if you feel it is necessary. It is suggested that you do wait at least a day or so before getting another reading, for this confirmation. If other reader gives you approximately same time frames for same questions, chances are it is going to take that long! Calling for a reading once a week on same issue does not speed it up! If you have new situations crop up that require a new reading, by all means feel free to question it. These new situations do not pertain to just feelings. We are speaking of actual physical changes or manifestations in you situation or dilemma.

Feelings are an interpretation of events that happen to you in life; interpreter is soul and hence is root of feeling. Acknowledging these feelings leads you into contact with your soul and therefore a greater understanding of self.

Feelings and emotions can manifest tension in different areas of your body. For instance, there are sympathetic points in sternocloidemastoid (the frontal muscle of your neck). When your emotions get backed up and are not dealt with, this muscle can become tight and lead to irritability, headaches and lot more.

Simply by dealing with a feeling, such as standing up for yourself can ease these muscles and save you from pain and suffering. This is just a physical manifestation of feelings, deeper feelings and emotions that are left in “too hard basket” can lead to lack of focus, motivation, hypertension & depression.

When you become one with your feelings, you merge with yourself and are free to observe and enjoy life in all its glory. It is your feelings that guide you towards meanings of questions you are here to answer; they guide you to your niche in life where you are happiest and able to learn most in easiest of life’s ways.

For example, it is your feelings and emotions which enable you to identify your greatest love in life -- your own identity! Acknowledging them would lead you to take that on as a physical profession, and in doing so you dissolve one of largest constraints of modern life – work. In doing something you love you’ll never have to work again because every day is play!

Some people get a buzz from accounting, some from skateboarding, others from retail and still others from law. No one knows why or understands someone elses passion but that’s OK because they don’t need to!

It is feelings and emotions your soul transmits to you that will lead you towards your true identity and happiest life possible, and living a happy life is what we all dream about, isn't it?