Practical Steps of Enchantment

Written by Dr. Barbara Becker Holstein


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2) Katherine's Memory - Playing Elevator inrepparttar Closet Katherine remarked: "My sister and I had so much fun when we were children. The two of us would play, "Elevator" for hours. It was a simple game that went this way: one of us would pretend to berepparttar 129911 elevator operator. She would openrepparttar 129912 closet door and say going up or going down. Thenrepparttar 129913 other one would walk intorepparttar 129914 closet. The door would be closed behind her. She would huddle onrepparttar 129915 floor in total darkness. A moment would pass and then she would respond torepparttar 129916 voice outside saying, "This floor, coats, dresses, or Second floor, furniture, and cosmetics." Then out she would leap, laughing hysterically. This sequence would be repeated again and again. We were not at all frightened byrepparttar 129917 darkness, feeling totally at home in our homemade elevator." What a lovely memory Katherine had, so full of heartwarming components. Katherine was able to bring back images of herself and her sister playing with enthusiasm, keeping busy laughing uproariously, and feeling safe.

3) Positive Memories - We All Have Them! Do you realize that we all have special fond memories tucked away inside of us? Whether you come from a family that had many opportunities for pleasure and joy or whether you came from circumstances that were far from ideal, it doesn't matter. Somewhere, in you past you have experienced pleasure, joy, humor, and positive feelings of connection. My hunch is that there have been times when you felt that all was right withrepparttar 129918 world and whatever you were doing could go on forever. For Katherine when she began to talk about pleasant memories, this elevator memory came back to her, from early childhood. However, you may have a special memory that goes back to last year or maybe even this morning. That too qualifies as an enchanted memory. Simply put an enchanted memory is one where positive rather than negative feelings are aroused as you go back to it. I call these memories Positive Fingerprints ofrepparttar 129919 Mind because they are so clearly unique to you. We may both have gone to summer camp. While swimming inrepparttar 129920 lake was your fondest memory from that summer it may have been my most miserable. 4) Peanut Butter: We All Love It Lots of memories, even fromrepparttar 129921 very distant past, are charming and heartwarming. Here is a memory that many of us can resonate to: eating peanut butter sandwiches. I was surprised and delighted to hear on public radio that in New York City there lurks a small restaurant devoted torepparttar 129922 nostalgia and experience of peanut butter sandwiches. The two favorite atrepparttar 129923 restaurant are a peanut butter sandwich dripping with honey with sliced bananas inside, and a bacon, lettuce and tomato sandwich with peanut butter. I thought as I listened torepparttar 129924 report that this was such a charming idea for a restaurant. People can come together in one place where everyone is not only enjoyingrepparttar 129925 food but also have a reverie into his or her own past as sandwiches are devoured. I hope I gave you a nice review or introduction to The Enchanted Self. Please savorrepparttar 129926 two examples above and spend a little time coming up with your own delicious memories fromrepparttar 129927 past. May they be as much fun asrepparttar 129928 imaginary elevator and taste as good as a fresh peanut butter sandwich!

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The 7 Ultimate Laws Of Success

Written by Angel Low


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5. The Law of Polarity The Law of Polarity states that everything has an opposite. When there is a negative, there is a positive. Just as there is hot and cold, light and darkness, male and female, North and South Pole, there is a bad side and a good side to every earthly situation. The worserepparttar situation seems,repparttar 129908 more positive a situation is lying underneath. Thus, if something you perceive as negative happens, recognizerepparttar 129909 positive in it and focus onrepparttar 129910 positive. Many people haverepparttar 129911 habit of looking or focusing only onrepparttar 129912 negative side of situations and other people.

Sometimes in your life, something perceived as negative may happen. Focusing on how negativerepparttar 129913 situation is and brooding over it means that you are attracting even more negative energy. Instead, applyrepparttar 129914 Law of Polarity. For every negative situation that happens, there is a positive side to it. Therefore, focus onrepparttar 129915 positive aspect ofrepparttar 129916 situation. Ask yourself “How can I benefit from this?” By doing so, you redirect your energy to attract more positive energy instead of negative energy.

Something can happen to you. But it is you who choose to let it get you down or to makerepparttar 129917 most of it. It is up to you to choose to focus onrepparttar 129918 negative and let it get you down or to seerepparttar 129919 positive ofrepparttar 129920 situation and make use of it to help you in your life. One great challenge that everyone faces today is something known as "failure" to most people.

For every perceived failure, there is an opportunity to step out and move into a better situation. When you have an outcome that you perceive as failure, it is only a perceived failure. Use it and take advantage of it. Be aware that it is a sign that you should change your strategy. Every perceived failure is not permanent failure but feedback. It is only permanent failure if you let it stop you from achieving your goals.

6. The Law of Detachment The Law of Detachment states that one should be detached fromrepparttar 129921 process by which one’s goals are realized or whetherrepparttar 129922 goal is replaced by something higher and better. You may be at point A and your goal is to get to point B. You will have your own plans to get from point A to point B, but do not be too fixated on these plans; be open torepparttar 129923 fact that there may be other routes that will take you to point B. This does not mean that you do not research, plan and take actions towardsrepparttar 129924 attainment of your goals. The principle inrepparttar 129925 Law of Detachment is to be detached fromrepparttar 129926 result andrepparttar 129927 process of getting it. In not fixating on any one approach you know of to get to point B, you are stepping intorepparttar 129928 world of Uncertainty. Another word for uncertainty is Infinite Possibilities. In being detached fromrepparttar 129929 process of getting what you want, you open yourself torepparttar 129930 wisdom of uncertainty which brings along infinite possibilities.

When you are too attached, you suffocate creativity, fluidity and spontaneity which interfere withrepparttar 129931 process of achieving your goals.

So if something perceived as unpleasant or negative happens to you and you attach yourself torepparttar 129932 meaning you give it, it will be nothing more than a negative event in your life. But if you detach yourself fromrepparttar 129933 meaning you give to it, you will be able to see other meanings which could accelerate your success.

Detachment fromrepparttar 129934 negative meaning of an event or thing will bring you intorepparttar 129935 realm of infinite possibilities. Many opportunities came about from a problem when someone detached from its negative meaning. 7. The Law of Energy Transmutation

The Law Of Energy Transmutation is one ofrepparttar 129936 most powerful laws that can help you realize your goals. “Transmute” means to change from one form to another. The Law Of Energy Transmutation states that energy fromrepparttar 129937 formless realm is constantly being transmuted into its physical form inrepparttar 129938 physical world. Know that this energy inrepparttar 129939 formless realm is inexhaustible and limitless.

The successful understand this law whilerepparttar 129940 unsuccessful are too blinded by what they see with their physical eyes. Becauserepparttar 129941 successful understand this law, they are much less affected if at all by what they see. They know that whatever they see is only a manifestation of their desires.

What you see in this physical world is only a manifestation of someone’s desires. Allrepparttar 129942 wealth and achievements of great men like Andrew Carnegie, Henry Ford and many more were onlyrepparttar 129943 manifestations of their desires. Their wealth and achievements were once non-existent inrepparttar 129944 physical form but they were brought into physical existence fromrepparttar 129945 formless realm byrepparttar 129946 practice of this law together withrepparttar 129947 other success techniques.

Start unlockingrepparttar 129948 power within you and learnrepparttar 129949 success techniques to tap into your superconscious mind to transmute your desires fromrepparttar 129950 formless realm into their physical equivalent.

Now that you know this great power that is within you, make this powerful law a part of your life, thoughts and actions and see your desires become manifested. Transmute any form of energy be it negative or neutral into a more useful and success-oriented form to achieve unlimited success.

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