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-- I look for teachable moments to teach my kids strong values. _A _B _C_D _F
-- I try to role model healthy, moral choices for my children. _A _B _C_D _F
-- I don't withhold affection, praise or attention from my child as punishment. _A _B _C _D _F
-- I don't put unrealistic expectations on my children. _A _B _C _D _F
-- I discipline in love, not in anger. _A _B _C _D _F
-- I let my children know they are loved unconditionally and without qualification. _A _B _C _D _F
A statement that has stayed with me for a long time is "Rules without Relationship = Rebellion." Creating and maintaining lasting, deep, trusting relationships with our children is not quick, and it is not easy. But is it worth it? I think you know
answer.
There are definitely areas I need to improve in as a parent. How about you? Like our children, we will get another report card. If you need to improve in some areas, take some time to work on them. And as Diana Ennen of VirtualWordPublishing.com states, "Remember every step you take to improve is a step in
right direction. Just keep taking those steps continually and you'll see results."
One thing I make sure to tell my children often is that there is absolutely nothing they can do to make me love them any less. Sure, they can cause me to be disappointed, very disappointed, and even angry. But my love for them will never lessen. And my kids know that. To me, that deserves an "A".

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