Our Present Reality

Written by Joseph Ghabi

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So you have dealt withrepparttar problem on a conscious level, very good! But what do you intend doing about what is happening in your sub-conscious? Are you even aware ofrepparttar 132575 stuff that is in your sub conscious which is left for you to understand and handle as a remainder of your experiences?

At this point I will takerepparttar 132576 opportunity to remind you that I come from a very technical and scientific background. In this field, if there is something which cannot be proven logically and rationally we normally assume that it does not exist. I know this is a wrong approach which only ever leaves us with a very limited view of things. Is this really what science is supposed to be about? I thought science was supposed to be about exploration and enquiry intorepparttar 132577 unknown without applying judgment from our human rational mind! On that note, how open minded was your therapist when working with you?

When growing up as a child, constantly seeing and hearing things in front of your eyes gradually builds up your perception in your mind until it becomes what is ‘normal’ to you on a conscious level. This is how you slowly program yourself and your association to life to things according to what you see and understand from that age and up.

Where do we storerepparttar 132578 un-necessary residue which is left behind from past experiences? The sub-conscious isrepparttar 132579 next level of consciousness which is programmed. The sub conscious becomesrepparttar 132580 next level of deep memory storage which is also engraved according to our understanding of life and our understanding of who we are. If we have passed through tough experiences then we might have a personality which will begin to develop with low self-esteem, perhaps no self-confidence and trusting no-one inrepparttar 132581 process. How many of us are living atrepparttar 132582 moment with this dilemma in our lives? I’ll bet there are many more than you could ever imagine!

So what isrepparttar 132583 real problem here? Your sub-conscious will always trigger a reaction torepparttar 132584 events which occur in your life. Whenever something happens which is familiar to a past experience it will trigger a feeling, memory or a behavioral pattern which was created by you earlier as your way of handling your past experiences. This happens when it is least expected and it becomes normal to you as a being a part of your own built-in personality that you will probably not even see it as being a problem!

This is all very well and you could argue that there is nothing wrong with this because this is YOU and who you have grown to become after what you have experienced inrepparttar 132585 past. This is true to an extent, however, in reality you do not have to make do with what you are familiar with because it is easier than handling and acceptingrepparttar 132586 truth of your misery. This is always just an excuse we make to takerepparttar 132587 easy way out of dealing with our problems! We can all be whoever we would like to be and it is unfortunate that in reality many people do choose not to handle their experiences for fear of loosing their identity.

This is a huge mistake we have been making as a human race. When we realize that we can potentially be whoever we would like to be then we would probably be able to handle our experiences much better and without being sub-consciously programmed to act in ways which are not healthy for ourselves, just because we are afraid of losing what has become comfortable for us! Denyingrepparttar 132588 fact thatrepparttar 132589 sub-conscious exists and disregardingrepparttar 132590 fact that it is a huge part of your experience which greatly influences how you will handle your experiences now and inrepparttar 132591 future will eventually be your worst enemy in life if you do not deal with it properly.

If science was to change somewhat and become more open to new ideas instead of insisting upon following old theories which were proven long time ago and acceptedrepparttar 132592 existence of our sub-consciousness, just imagine how many mental illnesses or other types of illnesses could be solved. What are we afraid of losing by exploring new dimensions in our life?

We are becoming more and more lost by assuming all aspects ofrepparttar 132593 human misery can be handled and treatedrepparttar 132594 same way. Ifrepparttar 132595 old theories, anti-depressants and sleeping pills were so good and effective then why are we all still having so many ofrepparttar 132596 same problems? We are, as individuals, unique and very different from each other and we should be treated accordingly, instead of being categorized according to ‘theories’. If we were to begin understanding this concept and embracedrepparttar 132597 things we are afraid to embrace new ideas which are out-withrepparttar 132598 concepts we have grown to feel comfortable with, then we would maybe begin to understandrepparttar 132599 more mysterious aspects of life and perhaps we would enjoy that way!

At the age of eight Joseph discovered his clairvoyance. Joseph is natural medium presently teaching meditation, numerology, and provides numerology consultation and healing consultation. Joseph started the `Free Spirit Centre' website at http://www.freespiritcentre.info. A community web based centre dedicated to personal growth, soul growth, eating disorders, relationships, healing and human issues. E-mail: josephghabi@yahoo.ca

Healing Anger and Violence in Our Society

Written by Margaret Paul , Ph.D.

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Some children, whose parents were shut down or abusive, manage to stay connected with their core Selves through contact with animals such as dogs or horses, while others stay connected through contact with relatives or friends with whom they identify. But many young children just disconnect to survive. When in this disconnected state, if they watch violence on TV or practice violence through video games, they may further train themselves to numb out against compassion, empathy, andrepparttar pain of harming others.

Likewise, if children grow up with no personal connection with a source of spiritual guidance, they may not know that we are all one, and they may not considerrepparttar 132572 possibility thatrepparttar 132573 consequences of their actions may follow them into their lives after death.

Without connection with their core Self and their spiritual guidance, they are left with only their wounded selves. If they happen to be operating from an enraged wounded self, this self can certainly act out in angry and violent ways. With no loving inner Adult to set limits,repparttar 132574 harm to themselves or others can be disastrous, as we have seen.

While limiting guns is certainly a good thing to do, it will not stoprepparttar 132575 violence. This violence will not stop until we no longer need to learn, as very young children, to barricade our hearts. As parents and teachers we need to be practicing a healing process such as Inner Bonding so that we can reclaim our core Selves and our deep connection with God. Only by doing our own inner work will we be able to berepparttar 132576 loving role models that our children need. The change in our society must come from within each of us.

Margaret Paul, Ph.D. is the best-selling author and co-author of eight books, including "Do I Have To Give Up Me To Be Loved By You?", "Do I Have To Give Up Me To Be Loved By My Kids?", "Healing Your Aloneness","Inner Bonding", and "Do I Have To Give Up Me To Be Loved By God?" Visit her web site for a FREE Inner Bonding course: http://www.innerbonding.com or mailto:margaret@innerbonding.com

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