So what should you put in your profile?

Intsead of a whole big list of stuff like this is what I want and this is what I expect, you should have a touch of personality. Sure you will have certain expectations. You need to personalize them, so they just don't sound like your looking for a perfect person. If you like to joke around then add some little funnies throughout your profile. You need to show off your personality. Show people how you see world and that you don't take everything so seriously.

When you go to a nightclub you don't just go to meet someone, you go to have some fun too. You need to look at online dating in same way. Have some fun with it and don't take it to seriously. You will make things much easier on yourself.

Does that sound like something that would be hard for you to do?

Many guys tend to just doubt themselves. When they see a girl their interested in they start saying stuff like she is out of my league and numerous other things. That is negative thinking and you have got to change it.

Next time you see a girl your interested in you should change your mental thought to something more positive. You should be saying to yourself following.

She looks interesting.

I would like to get to know her better.

I'm going to see what she's up to for this weekend.

I'm going to ask her out.

I bet she would love to spend night out with me.

You can probably see difference this type of thought would have on you.

You need to start and practise your positive thinking if your struggling to get girl or keep girl. The bottom line is woman want a confident man and you need to overcome it.