Number One Killer Of Could-Have-Been Success Stories

Written by Nick Vernon


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It’s what you choose to concentrate on which will bring yourepparttar end result. Concentrate on success and don’t allow anything to blockrepparttar 123043 feeling of success from occupyingrepparttar 123044 only spot in your mind.

Failure is not an option because it’s notrepparttar 123045 option we want. It’s not included in our plans. And anything not included in our plans shouldn’t be there occupying our thoughts.

Eliminaterepparttar 123046 idea that you will fail and installrepparttar 123047 one that you will succeed. Because that’s what you are going to do.

Installrepparttar 123048 firm belief that you will make it and keep your purpose in mind. Nothing else matters but IT. You are an internet marketer and you are going to succeed as an internet marketer.

Does anything else matter?

You have to concentrate on eliminating this fear.

It’s not going to happen overnight but if you begin each day thinking of success instead of failure, you will find that as each day passes, you will be thinking of success more until that fear of failure doesn’t occupy your mind anymore.

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Belly Dancing for the Midlife Soul Part 2

Written by Sandra Schrift


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Several women have told me they wished they had known about belly dancing in their child birthing years as they really see how it would have helped them surrender and open more easily torepparttar birth energy. What Lamaze calls “pelvic rocking” and “deep breathing” are referred to as “belly roll” and “flutter.” Since life begins inrepparttar 123042 belly we now get a second chance to get back in touch with our bellies without becoming pregnant.

Something absolutely miraculous happens to women as they swirl their veils and isolate their hips while waving their snake-like arms. I love seeing my students rediscoverrepparttar 123043 magic and mystery of their true feminine energy for belly dancing truly puts one in touch withrepparttar 123044 profound wisdom and beauty of who we really are, no matter what our age or size of our bellies. We are transformed into earth mothers, playful little girls, queens in ornate costumes and seductresses all rolled into one desirable woman.

In as much as belly dance is improvisational, there are basic moves, but once learnedrepparttar 123045 dance becomes a personal expression ofrepparttar 123046 dancer. Eventually each belly dancer moves towards greater self-acceptance and confidence. Valentina, whose mother often called her a clumsy child, says, “I no longer feel awkward. I am now a dancer with a soul – andrepparttar 123047 soul is beautiful!” Clinical Therapist, Susan Siegel says, “The dancer was sleeping within me. It was not in my master plan but I love being alluring and spontaneous in my performance. It’s more about feeling than thinking.

During belly dance,repparttar 123048 mind, muscle, hip and shimmy celebrate a woman’s strength andrepparttar 123049 goddess within. It’s also very festive as women dress in alluring costumes, shaking their hips and their belly, coming together as “sisters” in a non-threatening environment. Audrey de la Houssaye states, “I always want to look my best in a costume which motivates me to take better care of my body.”

While spending seventeen days at Ground Zero, Rachel Chavez, a San Diego nurse, and long time belly dancer, visualized herself dancing. Doing so seriously reduced her stress. “I found myself swaying my arms to remove myself fromrepparttar 123050 incessant sounds ofrepparttar 123051 cranes and jackhammers.”

Once a student feels comfortable withrepparttar 123052 dance moves and their ability to express themselves in an unstructured way, repparttar 123053 women easily don costumes and eagerly look forward to participating in monthly performances at senior centers and nursing homes in San Diego. Bothrepparttar 123054 men and women inrepparttar 123055 audiences smile as they watchrepparttar 123056 dancers flail their veils, balance swords and act flirtatious. When a dancer drapes a perfumed veil overrepparttar 123057 head of a man inrepparttar 123058 audience, all repparttar 123059 men smile, secretly flattering themselves thatrepparttar 123060 gesture really was intended for them. The women smile too, because they all know better. “I loverepparttar 123061 sense of feminine mystery” behind my veil andrepparttar 123062 feeling of mastery says Susan Siegel.

The women who enjoy this form of dance find it to be a powerful yet joyful expression of their inner souls. Belly dancers will never let their age get inrepparttar 123063 way of their lives for dancing is more than fun

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