He reminded me that I took this on as a life-long dream and not to forget fun and excitement of experience.

He brought me back to reality by putting everything into perspective. Once grounded, I released significance I had created around challenge and focused on fun again.

The steps came easier and I mastered choreography.

Thanks to encouragement of my friends and husband, I realized my dream and I'm glad I followed through with it.

I now have a lovely video I can look back on in years ahead when I want to re-live my four-minute dancing career. :-)

I know that if I did not go whole nine yards and take action required to create experience, I would have short-changed myself and would regret it to this day.

Not only am I regret free, but I have since taken on and accomplished other items on my "100 things to do in this lifetime" list and it feels great!

Is there something you have always wanted to create, achieve or experience?

Remember that when our time has come, it is usually not what we did that we regret, but what we didn't do.

Do you want to learn to paint, turn your passion into a business, write a book, learn a new language, or reduce your golf handicap?

There are so many things you can do in this lifetime, and we all have same 24 hours in every day. It's up to you how you choose to use them and it's also up to you to believe in yourself.

Everyone else can believe in you and push you forward, but if you don't believe in yourself, it's not worth a hill of beans!

Remember …

You are never given a wish without also being given power to make it true. You may have to work for it, however. – Richard Bach

It is never too late to be what you might have been. – George Eliot

12.The legal system will incorporate this knowledge. Court-mandated programs for repeat offenders will broaden from "anger management" and "Twelve step" programs to include, or be replaced by, EQ programs. 13.The statement that "anger kills" will be taken seriously, particularly effect of anger on men. Studies regarding emotional management, heart attacks and men, such as one at Duke University Medical Center and be incorporated into wellness programs. 14.The average EQ profile for men and women is same, but they differ in how they do with different competencies. With increased EQ abilities and better communication between sexes, along with recognition of vast health benefits of a viable marriage that nurtures both parties (and children), divorce rate will finally stabilize and start to diminish.

15.The use of prescription medications for emotional illness will start to decline as people learn how to manage their emotions better, experience less stress because others do as well, and atmospheres at home and at work are achieved that are conducive to wellness.

16.Corporations will have active anti-mobbing programs and schools will have anti-bullying programs. 17.The senior worker will be highly sought after because EQ will be valued, and EQ generally increases with age. Resilient seniors with good EQ skills are committed to lifelong learning. Their continued ability to 'build' their brains combined with their EQ competencies makes them relatively stress-tolerant, and excellent leaders, managers and team-players. With increased wellness, many will chose not to retire. Work will continue to be team-oriented, and at least one "senior" will be considered obligatory on any team. 18.Business recruiters will replace term “soft skills” with “EQ skills” and demand them in candidates. 19.EQ courses will be a mandatory part of core curriculm for medical school, law school, and business school. EQ seminars will be offered for CEUs for doctors, lawyers, teachers, psychologists, and other professionals.

20.We will welcome a Diversity of Psychological Type. Introversion will be recognized as a legitimate personality style and living and work conditions will be adjusted to accommodate both introverts and extraverts.

Interest in EQ is international. In fact, in a recent group of EQ coaches I trained (through Internet and teleclasses), we had participants from Bermuda, New Zealand, and China as well as different parts of US. I routinely receive inquiries from all over world. It’s not uncommon to hear clients and coaches say, “This is missing piece.’” It may well be glue that holds together pieces of our world in coming globalization and multi-enculturation.

French Jesuit Pierre Teilhard de Chardin said many years ago: “The day will come when, after harnessing ether, winds, tides, and gravitation, we will harness for God energies of love. And on that day, for second time in history of world, man will have discovered fire.” To rework it a little, it could be that we will be able to harness, for betterment of all people in world, positive energies of well-managed emotions and better health.