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Now, reconsider these questions with regard to this person.
- What specifically did they do?
- How did they behave towards you and others to create this feeling in you?
- How much fear did you feel associated with working for them?
- Did you feel controlled or influenced by them? In other words, did they have an indirect effect on your behavior, or did they directly regulate your behavior?
We’ll call this person
Worst Supervisor.
Most people say that
Best Supervisor got more voluntary effort and better long-term performance and relationship results from their team. I have yet to meet
person who says
Worst Supervisor got great performance from their team.
Now consider this question for a moment: Who do you think these two people thought/think about first? Most people say that
Best Supervisor tends to keep their focus on others. Most people also say that
Worst Supervisor tends to think only of themselves and their interests.
The question for leaders becomes – How do I want
people on my team to view me?
The answer lies in how we,
leaders, think.
Our thoughts become words or actions that influence
behavior of
people around us. When I focus on my personal desires, I act in selfish ways. When I act in selfish ways, I inspire mediocre performance in my team. When I focus on
team, I act in
team’s best interest. When I act in
team’s best interest, I inspire high-level performance in my team.
As I close this article, my mind is racing with possible questions and qualifying statements. Due to space and time constraints, I haven’t even begun to address some of
issues that come to mind:
- How does this apply to team members who don’t want to play nice?
- How do you preserve
integrity of your vision while working with people who see things differently? etc.
These issues are too big to consider all at once. I'll address these related issues at a different time. So for now, I encourage you to remember this one tip . . . Develop a “we” focus and not a “me” focus.
