My Teenaged Parents

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Could I get help? You can guessrepparttar answer! Something about hell freezing over. I'm not about to win this battle, but I could use a friend during some ofrepparttar 115756 more serious skirmishes. Here are a few things that could really lift my spirits: ·Come over. Don't send flowers. They're just something else to take care of. But a home-cooked meal would be great. ·Even better -- stay and serve it. ·Call often. Not me, my parents. Give them someone else to vent to. ·Be a chauffer. Take them torepparttar 115757 doctor, to shop, whatever. Just take them off my hands for a little while. ·Start a "Caregiver's Day Out" at your church, synagogue or temple. Give me a break - just a few hours would be wonderful. ·Suggest a companion fromrepparttar 115758 Senior Corps. These retired adults spend 10-20 hours each week being a companion to shut-ins. If you're retired, consider becoming one yourself. ·Lobby your Senators and Representatives for more funding for Adult Day Care Centers. The nearest one to me is 45 miles away and does not provide transportation. Some people believe that life is a school with lessons for each of us. If so, my lesson is patience. I know I have to grow it for myself. . .but, please, rally round inrepparttar 115759 meanwhile. My patience cells are still infants!

Phyllis Staff, Ph.D. - Phyllis Staff is an experimental psychologist and the CEO of The Best Is Yet.Net, an internet company that helps seniors and caregivers find trustworthy residential care. She is the author of How to Find Great Senior Housing: A Roadmap for Elders and Those Who Love Them. She is also the daughter of a victim of Alzheimer's disease. Visit the author's web site at http://www.thebestisyet.net.


Stretch Your Eldercare Dollars

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Many public transportation authorities provide door-to-door, cost-saving rides for elderly and disabled people. If your elder lives in a retirement community, some transportation will be included inrepparttar monthly rental. Special fees may apply for transportation to special events, but having alternative transportation available may help you build a solid case for your elder to give uprepparttar 115755 car ownership.

Senior centers - Senior centers offer companionship and a variety of activities at little or no cost. Check to see what your local senior center has that might interest your elder.

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You'll save money when you're alert to hefty assessment fees, a few costing upwards of one thousand dollars. Such fees fit neatly intorepparttar 115759 category of "hidden costs."

A crafty variation isrepparttar 115760 practice of performing initial assessments 30 days afterrepparttar 115761 elder becomes a resident. If you question this practice, you'll probably hear that an assessment would not be accurate untilrepparttar 115762 elder has settled fully into his new home. Watch out!

Most facilities will allow you to terminate your elder's lease without penalty withinrepparttar 115763 first 30 days of residency. However, ifrepparttar 115764 assessment increasesrepparttar 115765 monthly fees substantially (a likely outcome), you won't know about it until after you're locked into a contract. Often, by terminating a lease after 30 days you lay yourself open to sizable penalties.

Pharmacy Costs - A new twist in hidden costs is a facility's demand that medications be packaged in single dose packets. If you thought prescription costs were already high, get ready for heart-stopping sticker-shock when you seerepparttar 115766 prices for individually packaged doses. This requirement can add as much as six thousand dollars each year to your long-term care costs. Ask specifically about this practice before you sign a contract.

Fees and Deposits - Fees are recurring charges for monthly services, while deposits are sums held byrepparttar 115767 property owner to protect against potential damages. Pets, smokers, and wheelchair/cart users can damage a property, so charging fees or deposits in these special circumstances is reasonable.

Not so reasonable, however, isrepparttar 115768 practice of charging both fees and deposits. It amounts to another hidden cost that you should reject.

Don't allowrepparttar 115769 simplicity of these tactics to mislead you. While they are simple to carry out,repparttar 115770 savings they create could amount to tens of thousands of dollars every year.

Phyllis Staff, Ph.D. - Phyllis Staff is an experimental psychologist and the CEO of The Best Is Yet.Net, an internet company that helps seniors and caregivers find trustworthy residential care. She is the author of How to Find Great Senior Housing: A Roadmap for Elders and Those Who Love Them. She is also the daughter of a victim of Alzheimer's disease. Visit the author's web site at http://www.thebestisyet.net.


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