Motivation by comparison

Written by John Watson


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"The way out is to pick something very proactive, very constructive. Think of something that needs doing - some cause - something that will take you forward if you think about it.

So I just get busy with that and I am back in shape. It takes will power but fortunately I was an actor for 28 years and as an actor you get very used to rejection.

You might get one part out of twenty auditions and so I thinkrepparttar discipline of being an actor for all those years has really helped me because you still have to believe in yourself. And I believe in what is happening inrepparttar 122925 research.

With sheer will power you can keep your body in shape.

This is a big test, a big, big test but fortunately I have tremendous help from my family and friends and staff and we'll go forward and get out of this."

I am not sure ifrepparttar 122926 last few words were actually what he said as they were a little indistinct but his attitude was mainly one of hope forrepparttar 122927 future.

Christopher used his work to lift any depression he might be feeling. He sawrepparttar 122928 promotion of medical research as a worthwhile cause. Just getting down to work promoting it put him back on track.

He also acknowledgedrepparttar 122929 help of friends, family and staff in keeping him going. Gratitude is a great motivator and it opensrepparttar 122930 mind to expect and receive help fromrepparttar 122931 universe

I was surprised that he linked discipline with being an actor but when you think about it discipline is all about keeping going and doing whatever needs doing even when you feel disappointed and as if you are getting nowhere.

An actor must feel down and think about giving up every time they are rejected at an audition. If they keep attending auditions they have discipline.

Christopher kept going after his accident by calling on his history of self-discipline and will power. This kept him doing whatever physical exercise he thought might help.

The other thing that keeps an actor going is belief in himself or herself. After his fall from his horse, Christopher's belief in medical research kept him promotingrepparttar 122932 research torepparttar 122933 general public.

If he could show this kind of discipline, will power and belief inrepparttar 122934 face ofrepparttar 122935 big, big tests he faced surely we can showrepparttar 122936 same qualities inrepparttar 122937 face ofrepparttar 122938 much smaller tests that we face.

If he had lived inrepparttar 122939 UK, he would probably have been knighted Sir Christopher Reeve both for his films and his work to relieve suffering. Americans have honoured and will honour him in their own way.

A little time spent comparing ourselves with Christopher Reeve should provide us with an endless source of motivation inrepparttar 122940 future. Motivation by comparison works.



John Watson is an info publisher on the internet and a martial arts school owner. He taught Religious Studies and Life Skills to teenagers in London schools for about 33 years before retiring in 2000 A.D. His own e-books and those of the English multimillionaire, Stuart Goldsmith, can be found on his site at www.motivationtoday.com


Whistle while you work

Written by John Watson


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The Parkinson audience roared with laughter. Earthy humour goes down well inrepparttar UK! Michael probed further "You walk a tight rope with your humour. Where do you drawrepparttar 122924 line?" "I don't. Things are so terrible some times thatrepparttar 122925 only way you can relieve tension is to try a joke to get people to laugh .I lost four friends inrepparttar 122926 twin towers. That’s serious big time. I maderepparttar 122927 first jokes about it because it was so horrible that, when people came to see I me, I did jokes to relieverepparttar 122928 tension. My husband committed suicide and I went on stage a week later and said: 'It was my fault because we were making love and I tookrepparttar 122929 bag off my head. It makesrepparttar 122930 people relax" Michael commented. "You make fun of old age butrepparttar 122931 one certain fact ofrepparttar 122932 matter is, as far as you are concerned, you keep getting better and better as a stand up.You have a sense of confidence; you have a sense of experience; you haverepparttar 122933 timing which doesn't go...."

Joan interrupted with feeling: "And they've done it all to me. Do you know what I'm saying? I've been fired. I've been thrown out. I've been told I'm over. I've been told five times: "Forget about her "...so you keep coming back. So an audience doesn't like me. It makes you sad but I know there's a tomorrow and that makes a big difference I think that's why you come onrepparttar 122934 stage. You just want to have fun." Joan Rivers is a survivor and a great success in her own way. She has helped people to laugh at old age, suicide, terrorism and death. She has helpedrepparttar 122935 middle aged cope with their unflattering looks:

"Look inrepparttar 122936 mirror if you're over 50 and you have two choices - death or humour."

Joan believes in having fun. She is one of those who whistles while she works. People can endurerepparttar 122937 boring work so long as they can chat and have fun occasionally with their work mates. Even soccer stars who loverepparttar 122938 game often missrepparttar 122939 banter inrepparttar 122940 changing room most when they retire.

My most successful lessons as a martial arts instructor have been whenrepparttar 122941 lesson has been fun. Both young and old students enjoy drills which demand quick reactions but which do not end in pain.

Blocking and evasion skills, for example, can be taught by having one student throw boxing gloves at another. Even ifrepparttar 122942 block failsrepparttar 122943 empty glove does not hurt. I have just tried throwing a woolly hat atrepparttar 122944 cat to improve her evasion skills but she does not seem to enjoy this at all. She just turned her back on me in disgust. I think a dog might have a greater sense of fun! Before allrepparttar 122945 cat lovers complain, I do realize that many cats do enjoy play.

Every one loves to hit things especially things that don't hit back! Focus mitt and shield drills are fun. You can work very hard hitting them and having fun atrepparttar 122946 same time. You learn all kinds of kicking and striking skills while you enjoy yourself. Working out to lively music is fun. Aerobics instructors have realised this fromrepparttar 122947 start. It is no accident that their classes are full.

When I taught Religious Education,repparttar 122948 pupils learned fastest when they were learning through games and quizzes where they could have fun atrepparttar 122949 same time. They learned a great deal without realising that they were working hard.

The seven dwarves in Disney's Snow White hadrepparttar 122950 right idea. Even if you are doing boring work inrepparttar 122951 mines, whistle while you work and have some fun. The time will go a lot more quickly and you will still getrepparttar 122952 work done.

John Watson is an info publisher on the internet and a martial arts school owner. He taught Religious Studies and Life Skills to teenagers in London schools for about 33 years before retiring in 2000 A.D. His own e-books and those of the English multimillionaire, Stuart Goldsmith, can be found on his site at www.motivationtoday.com


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