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She played game well and knew just which buttons to push and when with this man. Eventually, after promising to marry him, poor bloke bought her a car and put it in her name. Bingo! She got what she had wanted all along and a mere ten days later she suddenly broke it off with him, leaving him baffled as to what he'd done wrong.
Actually, his only crime was believing in her and falling for her ploy. I really felt sorry for poor guy because he didn't even see it coming.
There are methods a man can use to distinguish "grand manipulator" from good girls who only want to be loved and nothing more. There are signs to look for and indications right from start of any dating relationship which will tell a man whether or not she's "right" kind of girl.
If soon after meeting a lady she begins to tell you sob stories about her poor, pathetic life it could be an indication she may be looking toward you to rescue her in some way. It's a man's natural instinct to jump in and be "hero". But don't offer to help her too quickly because you may become unwary victim of another "grand manipulator" yourself.
Deborah Willis is the author of ATTRACT WOMEN -- The Average Man's Guide To Attracting, Dating, Loving, and Maintaining Relationships with Women. For more down-to-earth advice for men visit http://moonshadowmarketing.com/attractwomen.htm