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Never read off of cue cards; use them as guides to direct your speech, not direct it verbatim. Be as concise and clear as possible and limit
length of your speech as much as possible. Remember those long lectures you had to suffer through in college?
Likewise, try to involve your audience at least once during your speech so you keep them proactive in their listening, like by asking rhetorical questions, telling a joke you know is funny, or conducting a question and answer period after you speak.
5- Managing your time
What´s more important to you: Planting a tomato garden or playing with your son? Learn to prioritize.
Extraneous activities should always be
lowest on your list of things to do. Also, to manage your time effectively, book time for meetings, project work, but also for play; you don´t want to become a workaholic.
Schedule reasonable lengths of time for activities, and if anything, allow more time than you think you require. Bring your agenda or PDA with you everywhere.
6- Firming your handshake
First, verify that your hand is adequately warm and not sweaty. Going to
bathroom before predicted handshakes and washing your hands in warm water is a good way to keep
shake clean and comfortable.
To properly shake hands, extend your right hand after exchanging verbal greetings. Say, while looking in
other person´s eyes, "Hi, my name is (fill in name), nice to meet you." Firmly grasp their hand, making sure not to not crush or squeeze their digits together or hold
hand limp and noodle-like. Remember to keep a faint and professional smile. Do not overdo or overly curb your enthusiasm.
7- Making a toast
All great men know how to start off a party with a lively toast. To make a positive impression when you toast, you should know what you are going to say about whom and why, and practice ahead of time. For example, plan a few jokes and embarrassing anecdotes to toast to your best bud´s tragic loss of bachelorhood.
Before commencing, check that all parties have a filled glass in front of them. Stand and face
person whom you are toasting or
crowd if you are making a general statement like, "To life, love and
pursuit of infinite fortune." Then, raise your glass up to nose level, with your arm gently extended in front of you. Speak your toast enthusiastically and make eye contact with
crowd or intended recipient. Wave your glass to all, and tip or clink with people who are close enough. Take a hearty sip and sit back down.
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8- Getting out of difficult situations
Sticky situations rarely get
best of a professional man. An angry employee or a trying ex-wife can put a wrinkle in anyone´s plans. However, having an easy way out of difficult situations is
best way to master them in advance.
Keep your wits under pressure. If someone upsets you, do not resort to verbal abuse, and certainly not physical assault. Calmly state your position and views without succumbing to or employing manipulative pressure tactics.
Likewise, refuse to speak with an irate, belligerent, or out of control person. Simply stop talking, excuse yourself and walk out of
room, or redirect
person´s attention to another issue. For instance, tell a joke to alleviate
tension of
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