Media Employment Myth #1 Things are Getting Better

Written by Virginia Bola, PsyD


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"Everyone who wants to work will have a job." What a great political tagline. But what does it imply? That anyone without a job does not want to work?

The logic is: Let's not blame unsuccessful economic strategy, orrepparttar corporate greed of top executives making millions while trimming their work force to increase profits, or repetitively poor political decisions - let's putrepparttar 101444 blame onrepparttar 101445 poor saps out of work who must have done something wrong to get into that position. And let's not extend unemployment benefits because that will force them into taking those awful bottom level jobs which will makerepparttar 101446 unemployment rate go down and ourselves look good. We just have to getrepparttar 101447 media to buy intorepparttar 101448 big lie and we're all set.

Arrogance, dereliction, and disinformation. The big lie, often enough repeated, apparently works.

Virginia Bola operated a rehabilitation company for 20 years, developing innovative job search techniques for disabled workers, while serving as a respected Vocational Expert in Administrative, Civil and Workers' Compensation Courts. Author of an interactive and emotionally supportive workbook, The Wolf at the Door: An Unemployment Survival Manual, and a monthly ezine, The Worker's Edge, she can be reached at http://www.unemploymentblues.com


Job Hunting Tips #5 Creating a Sense of Security

Written by Virginia Bola, PsyD


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4. Maintain your sense of self. Followrepparttar familiar routines you devised while working so you continue to feel like you.

5. Identify multiple resources: newspaper ads, job lines, internet sites, agencies, networking. Knowing that multiple options are available can counteract negativity aboutrepparttar 101443 future and feelings of panic.

6. Treasure your support systems. The frustration you feel is often misdirected towards those closest to you. Appreciate your family and friends and banishrepparttar 101444 self-pity that often comes with stress.

7. Treasure yourself. Don't berate yourself forrepparttar 101445 mistakes you make. Concentrate on remembering things you have done well, that show your individual value.

8. Pace yourself. Allow for periods of not thinking about work. Do something active that you enjoy even if only for an hour or two at a time.

9. Maintain your objectivity. Not being offered a job does not reflect on your personal competence. It simply indicates a mismatch as if you had tried unsuccessfully to sell a shack to a couple secretly seeking a mansion.

10. Manage your job search as if it were a sales campaign. Evenrepparttar 101446 world's best sales person will not make every sale but knows that each new contact increasesrepparttar 101447 chance of success.

Practice these tips to build a sense of security, even if initially fragile, and your mental outlook will bloom, allowing you to remain calm inrepparttar 101448 face ofrepparttar 101449 panic of those around you who walk in constant fear of layoff.

Virginia Bola operated a rehabilitation company for 20 years, developing innovative job search techniques for disabled workers, while serving as a respected Vocational Expert in Administrative, Civil and Workers' Compensation Courts. Author of an interactive and emotionally supportive workbook, The Wolf at the Door: An Unemployment Survival Manual, and a monthly ezine, The Worker's Edge, she can be reached at http://www.unemploymentblues.com


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