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No where has this been more obvious than on
new "reality television" shows. It is not realistic to place people in an artificial environment and expect them to instantly bond on an intimate level. These programs may have found such a large audience because
premise of what they are doing is so peculiar.
People learn to relate on different levels. There are times when relationships are formed without even seeing
other person. Pen pals and telephone conversations, while not usually an instant connection, can quickly develop into so much more. Physical components don't get in
way, and true personalities can emerge.
On
other hand, many attractions start out as purely physical. In order to endure, they must transcend beyond this level, because images change as we age. Special friendships go beyond
superficial to
essence of
people we are.

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