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You can find many wonderfully supportive people on various home business forums scattered all over net.
Enjoy process. Find things you enjoy doing in your business, and enjoy every day activities that you engage in. Remember to appreciate people who help you on you road to success, whether advisers, customers or employees. Have fun!
> What to do when this happens: Just go ahead and do some work. You will most likely find that once you start, you will get absorbed in activity, that you will forget that you did not feel like working in first place. Do one thing you enjoy about your business first, and use other things you enjoy as rewards once you have completed less fun aspects of your business.
Work for just five minutes. Tell yourself that you will work for just five minutes on your business, and after that you can either stop, or continue as you wish. After all, five minutes will not take that much out of your day, will it?
If this technique does not work, than most likely, you are dealing either with fatigue (Reason 1, above), or self-sabotage (Reason 3, below).
REASON 3: SELF-SABOTAGE This one is very subtle, even more so because it can disguise yourself as any of other two. We, as human beings fear change, even change for better.
You might feel like you will never make it, or that only way that you can become successful is by neglecting your family and all things that are important to you. Or any of a number of other negative pre-conceptions, some of which you may not even be consciously aware of.
As you can probably guess, this particular area is highly complicated, and I will devote a full article to it in future (or perhaps, even a series of articles). In meantime, here are a couple of things that you can do:
> Prevention: Be aware of any negative feelings and preconceptions you have, and make sure that you deal consciously with them. Surround yourself with supportive people, and do not listen to those who try to fill your mind with negative feelings. Working with a life coach would also be helpful.
> What to do when this happens: Acknowledge any negative feelings, and try to focus on positive aspects of your business. You may also find 'Five minute' technique from above helpful. I hope that by reading this article you have gained a better understanding of why sometimes you just feel like taking evening off, even if you have planned to work, and what to do when that happens.
Nenad Ristic is the web master of Abundance Technology, a website dedicate to helping people get started in home business http://www.abundance-technology.com