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3. Smile and Show Enthusiasm
Certainly you have encountered strangers who were sullen and appeared negative and unapproachable. A smile can change all that.
Have an open and inviting expression. Make good eye contact. People are DRAWN to others like this. Let that attractive stranger know you are open to meeting them and happy to be there. If they have an interest back, this will pave
way for a first interaction.
If you don't feel like smiling it may be a good idea to sit this one out at home with a movie or a good book or a low-key get together with a good friend.
4. Present Your Best Appearance
Always make your best effort in your grooming and choice of clothing. Attractive is just that. It's not about having beautiful features or a fantastic body. It's all about presenting what you have in
best light possible.
This also includes presenting an attractive personality. Be friendly, not pushy. Be open, not indiscreet. Have opinions, don't be a know-it-all. Always remember to consider others' feelings and needs. These interactions are not just about you.
5. Have Some Good Openings Lines Available
Hint: Natural conversation is best.
Some possible ones to consider:
*Do you know so and so? *I noticed you were enjoying
music a lot, isn't this a great band? *Your drink looks good- what is it? *I noticed you standing here alone and thought you may want some company.
Of course,
direct approach is ok too. *Hi, I'm so and so, what is your name?
Remember that there are no rules anymore about who goes first. If you see someone who interests you, go for it. Just remember that they may not return your feelings. Then you move away gracefully, look around for someone else that attracts you, and make an overture towards them.
Also remember that rejection is part of
process. If you let
fear keep you from taking that first step, you will greatly lessen your chances of meeting and connecting with compatible singles.
Toni coleman Helping Singles Find Lasting Love www.consum-mate.com Toni@consum-mate.com

Toni Coleman is a relationship coach who specializes in working with singles wanting lasting relationships. She has over 20 years of post-masters experience in coaching with singles and couples. She developed and teaches the Creating Lasting Relationships Training, a tele-workshop designed to help singles to define, implement and fulfill their relationship goals. She has also written numerous email classes for singles on all aspects of meeting, dating and relating.