Is that a result I desire?

Is this goal attainable?

Is this goal reasonable?

How can this goal be broken down into tiny steps?

Can I accomplish first of these steps?

Is that a reasonable thing to choose to do?

Am I hurting anyone in this process (directly or indirectly)?

You never need to turn power of your life over to another human being. You are created to be a unique individual. You were not put here to fulfill anyone else’s plans, dreams, or goals. No one has right to design your life – unless you turn over and abdicate your own power to another person.

Dare to dream. Risk to follow dream. And find your true authentic self along way.

Until next time - all best, Kate

If you respect your writing job, others will do so too. What is more, they won't feel neglected as you will give them your care and attention at time they are around. Furthermore, your house chores will be done in time and you won't feel overworked. Many a times I used to end up with half burned meals and I felt extremely stressed trying to catch up with all house chores before family was back home. So, telling yourself ‘I’ll do it later’, it’s not solution. ‘Later’ will come in no time and you will find yourself in a very difficult situation. Yet, no one will believe your excuses as you have been in house whole morning , and you will feel inefficient for no reason at all! " A little every day" is my motto, and, in long run, everything is done and everybody is happy. Keeping your writing and family under control will make you feel satisfied and everyone, including you, will be happy.

Also, keep in mind that there is nothing odd if you work in unconventional places. I sometimes find it stimulating to work in living room with all family around. Noise does not bother me ,on contrary, it brings me more ideas. This article was outlined last evening while we were all watching a football match. Well, truth is I did not watch much of it! I was absorbed in my new article, but that's how this idea sprang out. I can perfectly work in a chatty setting. Have you tried it? You may come up with fresh ideas and great articles.

Finally, who says that writing can turn you into a zombie? Shatter myth! It's up to you to enjoy both your family and your writing career. Simply make a time plan!

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Liana Metal is a teacher, writer and reviewer living in Europe. She has written fiction and non fiction and she is currently creating ebooks . http://liamet.tripod.com http://lianametal.tripod.com E mail: liamet900@hotmail.com