•Holding your feet to fire…too hot? In process of revitalizing your career, there’s plenty of research to be done: research into yourself – who you are now and what you want – and research into marketplace. A therapist would accompany you in researching yourself but would only indirectly participate in your market research. Homework and accountability are generally built into coaching, designed by you and your coach. Whether you find accountability motivating and focusing, or unwelcome pressure, should help inform your decision. •Do you want an expert or a companion? A therapist will invite you to go deeply into issues that may be blocking or confusing you, and may draw on his or her expertise to challenge your definition of problem. A coach will invite you to co-create goals and design of coaching, and your stated agenda will be focus unless you decide to change it. Both therapist and coach will help you see what you can’t see, but you remain more explicitly in charge of coaching than you would of therapy. If you come to conclusion that you want to look into psychotherapy, it’s advisable to look for word-of-mouth recommendations whenever possible. Another possibility is to consult your local Mental Health Association. Many people find it empowering to ask for sample visits with at least two therapists before making their decision. If you decide on coaching, be sure to inquire about training, in addition to experience, as you’re looking for a coach. The International Coaching Federation maintains a credential that assures client of a high level of both training and experience. And remember, nothing precludes doing therapy and coaching simultaneously. Some people find it a powerful duo. Good luck on your quest!

"It's a good thing to receive good advice."

"It's a good thing to give good advice."

"Giving and receiving quality advice is one of marks of maturity in a person"

IN CLOSING...

Take time and make effort to earn credibility in lives of people.

Credibility will give you a platform for sharing with others wisdom you have gained over years.

Be Willing To Receive Advice

Ask for help. Build a reputation of being a learner. Learn To Listen

Listen with your heart.

One of highest compliments you could ever hope to hear is: "You're a sensitive person."

Don't Over Deliver

Strive to give people only what they are mentally and emotionally prepared to receive at moment.

Express Gratefulness

Thank people when they help you.

Thank people you help for privilege of being involved in their lives.

Do It Anyway

Some people respond positively to quality advice. And some don't.

Make up your mind that sincerely attempting to help people is worth effort anyway. Don't stop trying.

You are valuable. The unique expressions of care you bring to world are valuable.

Yours for a day filled with beautiful moments in time,

Lee

------------------------------- Lee is a seminary administrator, has a part-time business at home, and writes two motivational ezines: "A Beautiful Moment In Time" and "Hope For Daily Living." Permission is given to distribute article. This paragraph must be included. Email: Lee@motivation-for-daily-living.net Link: http://www.motivation-for-daily-living.net