MARKETING CONVERSATIONS, AND CONVERSATION STOPPERSWritten by Nina Ham
Continued from page 1 Viewed in this light, imagined door slamming shut in your face shifts to a swinging door. Even if it shuts, you’re likely to come away with useful information about needs of this prospect, or about how to better position your services for your target client. Even if it shuts on him or her as a prospect, you’ve gotten word out to one more person about your services. Another conversation stopper, particularly seductive for service professionals: “I Can’t Sell Myself”. This one actually negates any conversation from outset, presuming instead that rather than talking, you have to convince or even manipulate prospect. A Second Opinion might point to a more promising line of inquiry such as: How do I quickly and accurately inform myself about my prospect’s needs and present my services as an effective solution? Shifting internal voices – abandoning conversation-stoppers or door-slammers and instead framing a question - gives you a good chance of getting off on positive footing for actual conversation. It’s very helpful to remember that even if prospect says no, this doesn’t have to be your last opportunity. When you relax into conversation, into listening and asking as well as telling, you may hear an interest or need that has no direct connection to your services but provides a basis for staying in touch. This will indeed have been a successful marketing conversation! Good luck.

Nina Ham, certified coach and licensed psychotherapist, is principal of Success from the Inside Out, providing individual coaching and teleseminars to build the skills, attitudes and habits for sustainable success in your career or business. Mail to: Nina@womenssuccesscoach.com, subscribe in subject line, for free monthly e-zine, or visit http://www.SuccessfromtheInsideOut.com.
| | Little Stocking Stuffers for You, Your Friends, or Your eZine ReadersWritten by Susan Dunn, Marketing Coach
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