Believe me, I'll be first to admit that there are plenty of people who have done very well for themselves without adhering to win, win approach. However, I wonder if one might really consider them successful? Keep in mind that success has so many facets to it. Just because someone has attained material wealth for instance does not make him or her successful nor non-successful.

It is all in eye of beholder I guess you might say. For me personally, I measure my level of success by how much I can give back to others.