Responsibility to maintain even what is hidden away or what remains holds a lot of unseen debiting energy. Letting go is removing debits so there is room for new credits to enter. I could feel energy getting zapped. Kitchen appliances making me feel guilty because I don't use them frequently.

Now my life is getting simpler and my writing is improving immensely. I no longer want very much nor dream of buying this or that. Advertising no longer pulls my strings longer than a few seconds which is a fabulous freedom.

Letting go isn't easy. There is stage of acknowledgment. At this stage you will realize how some things hold you back. Even today, on occasion, it seems weird knowing that even stuff hidden away in a closet or storage unit can affect my present and future success. New doors opened in my writing and beliefs. You will see your gifts blossom as you move past doubt and experience these moments.

The second stage is deciding what you are ready to let go of. This can only be done in present moment. It requires seeing truth of what items are really costing you balanced with removing doubt. Self-trust and confidence build in big ways during this stage. The more you experience results more your self-trust increases and doubt decreases.

The fear that you will one day need what it is you are letting go is a hard step. And self-honesty is only solution. Easier for some things than with others. During my eight years on working through this process, only twice did I find I really missed something. And a short time later I found a replacement that either saved me time or increase productivity many times over.

The third stage is results stage. Life will become easier, less overwhelming and stressful, and more creative. You will have more time for things that really matter most. You will also need to learn not to settle for just any ole stuff again. Everything that enters now will have a blessed energy that fuels your life. It will fuel your life and encourage even more letting go.

Where do you want to start today? The medicine cabinet, a drawer, or your desk. Be honest with it. What can you let go today to gain more energy tomorrow?

Would you prefer to be a positive or negative person?

Would you like to have a hapy go lucky attitude?

What things could you do to better your attitude?

What lies behind your attitude? (lack of self esteem, no confidence, i need to be mean to be listened too, I feel like i always have to smile to make everyone happy)

Once you have written all this down, i want you to re-read them. Really picture your self having attitude you want.

working first on your attitude and rest will follow.

Now that we know your attitude, lets move on to working on your attitude.

We are going to create an attitude plan. We are going to take some action notes to put in this plan to begin our attitude make over.

Eg : If you answered you want to be a positive person, then lets begin to explore that. How can you have a positive attitude. write things down that make you feel positive. maybe change your gloomy office environment or home environment. Bring some plants into work or flowers. Maybe at home in your relaxation area clear all clutter and create a peaceful balanced environment wheere you can relax & think positively. Have a ten min positive meditation. I will go into that later on in next few chapters.

What things can you do to better your attitude? il throw some at you. How bout smiling with a huge grin everytime you walk into office and give all your work mates a big hi how you going? did you have a great night? .. Starting every morning with breathing excercises will get your energy soaring and help you be more positive.

We are not born negative. We arent born with world on our shoulders. We start picking those things up as we go through life. so its about time that you start taking off all this negative baggage and become person your meant to become & only you can do this. No one else can do this for you.

Only you can decide to start thinking positive about things. Begin helping yourself. Help yourself on inside and continue to help yourself on outside.

Do something positive each day. Make it a routine which will later on turn into a habit. That is how habits are formed. Every morning believe in yourself & tell yourself that. Decide that today you will overcome all issues that will come accross your way. --------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------

Challenges

The challenges you face today may derive from choices you have made. Thank those challenges. This is what helps you grow. I have seen so many people just give up so easy when a challenge arises they dont even try and solve or overcome challenge.

This is what helps us grow as a person. Every miserable moment in your life has made you person you are today. They have made you survive till this day!!!. They have brought yu enough will to live till this day!! You need to thank them for that.

How many times have you had a challenge. Maybe it was goal you had set out for yourself, but you got to a certain point when a challenge hit you? And you just got upset, cried & gave up??

We all have done that. Its normal.

But what im trying to do is teach you how you can overcome all these challenge.

All you need to do is ask yourself a couple of questions. Ask yourself :

how did this challenge get here? How big is it? What is it about? How can i overcome it? How can i find a solution? If this person was facing this, how would they do it?

Never forget that person you want to become. always put yourself in their shoes and see what they would do, how would they handle it. Would they fly off handle, run and hide or would they face them and overcome them? Try and do same.

Its that easy. "yes sure easy for you to say".. I know it isnt as simple as pie, but you can overcome them by training yourself to ask yourself those questions and put yourself in those shoes. You will see challenges will become easier to face. There will come a day, when you will laugh when someone complains of a challenge, you have overcome a million times.

Check next article for rest of steps.

Practise those guidelines, start implanting them in your life. Create your self that list, design that person you want to become, once that is done .. read next article. :)