We need not be guilty of creating a life of happiness. There is no need to hurt those who have limited us in freeing ourselves. And, in some cases, we may need to break free from a career, a job, a relationship, or even family in order to create life we want. However, most letting go is not usually burning a bridge, but often letting go is an inside job: letting go might mean changing our belief pattern, a way we process emotion, or how we view life.

Sometimes there just isn't room in our lives for anything new. So some times letting go is just making room for new. We struggle with letting anything go we like our sameness. It is like an old bath robe comfortable though it is falling apart.

Some times negative things are comfortable. They are all we have ever known and we don't know what will fill that empty place they will leave if we really let them go. This is where faith comes in we have to know that we deserve something different and our good is on its way.

This process is an inside job. By changing what we BELIEVE we deserve, letting go of our our negative self-criticism, and embracing loving thoughts and behavior, we can create life of abundance, joy, fun, and love that we deserve.

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There are really only two methods to becoming successful.

1.Studying from a young age and then going to university and gaining a degree or doctorate in a profession such as law or medicine. 2.Hard work and an understanding of how to gain right tools and mindset to achieve and live your dreams.

Now most of us will fall into second category, as do most very successful people. 80% of all self made millionaires come from an average family with an average educational background. So if its not education how do they do it? Yes you have guessed it; they have a different mindset to rest of population.

This is your 7 point plan to get correct mindset.

1.Believe in yourself. Never doubt yourself. Always believe you will succeed. Trust and believe in your own judgement. 2.Set goals. You need to set goals daily, weekly, monthly, yearly, 5 yearly, 10 yearly and for rest of your life. 3.Visualise all that you want. Live dream-believe you have what you want. 4.Live a healthy life. By stimulating your physical body you will stimulate your mind. 5.Choose a business or career you really enjoy, something you have an interest in or a real passion for. 6.Manage your time correctly. 7.Work hard. The more you put in more you will get out.

If you believe you have a weakness in any of above areas, do something about it.

The 7 points above are fundamental traits that run through every self help or successful thinking book or program I have ever read. Every self-made millionaire uses these main 7 points. Master these and you are well on your way to a successful and healthy life.

Mark Claridge specializes in teaching motivational and self-development skills. In his new FREE e-book “Mindset and Match” he covers amongst other subjects how having the correct mindset can bring you all you want out of life and is available at http://www.mindsetandmatch.com. Visit his motivational web site http://www.inthe6th.com