Next train yourself to focus only on positive. In your mind SEE your-self living life you want, SEE car you want to drive, SEE house you want to live in, SEE good you plan to do with your success, SEE yourself living life you want to live. FEEL how it feels to live life you want to live. The mind is a powerful force. Thoughts are powerful. You will have what you THINK. If you think I will “try” to achieve my goals, that is paramount to thinking “I might fail”. Understand there can be NO possibility of failure in your thoughts or in what you speak. Pay attention to your thoughts and words. Banish all negativity. Focus and Believe with all your might in your success. Every night before you go to bed write in your success journal. List what you accomplished that day to move you toward your goal and specify what you are going to do next day to move toward your goals. Take daily action to achieve your goals. Be persistent.

To recap:

1. Make decision to live life you want. 2. Focus on what you wish to achieve. 3. Believe you can have life you want. 4. Take action EVERYDAY to achieve your life goals.

The possibilities for your success are limitless because they are within you. Hang in there. Persevere. Think positive. Take daily persistent action to achieve your dreams and success will come to you.

5. Synchronize Cooperatively

When people synchronize their watches, they insure that their individual actions will occur on time to produce an intended outcome. Relationships require ongoing cooperative action to survive and thrive.

As relationships mature, needs and values of individuals and relationship will change. Career relationships will require flexibility to meet changing schedules and new project goals. Cooperative actions provide synchrony and build trusting alliances. They are part of give and take that empowers strong, enduring relationships.

6. Act Authentically

Acting authentically means acting with integrity. It means living in harmony with your values. Be yourself when you are with someone else. Drop acts that create false appearances and false security.

When you act authentically, you are honest with yourself and others. You say what you will do, and do what you say. Ask for what you want in all areas of your relationships. Be clear about what you will tolerate. Find out what your relationship partners want also. Being authentic creates mutual trust and respect.

7. Acknowledge Generously

Look for and accentuate positive qualities in others. Humbly acknowledge difference that people make to your life. Validate them by expressing your appreciation for their life and their contributions. If you let someone know that they are valuable and special, they will not forget you. Showing gratitude and encouragement by words and actions will strengthen bonds of any relationship.

Don't forget to acknowledge your most important relationship: relationship with yourself. Acknowledge your own qualities, and put those qualities into action. You cannot form a stronger relationship with others than you have with yourself. You will attract qualities in others that are already within you.

Ask yourself: What thoughts and behaviors will attract kind of relationships I desire? What is one action I could take today that would empower my current relationships?

Write down all qualities or behaviors that you desire for your relationships. Select power skills that will attract those qualities. Keep a journal of actions you take and progress you make. By turning these skills into lifelong habits, you will build relationships that are healthy, strong and mutually rewarding.