Written by Robert Elias Najemy

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Once we have establishedrepparttar particular situations or stimuli that obstruct our feelings of self-worth or self-acceptance, we will need to separate our answers into two groups.

1. Those which have to do with * social programming * and not with our conscience. In such a case, we need to analyze each reason separately as we attempt to discover and changerepparttar 131364 beliefs that cause us to lose our self-acceptance in those situations.

When we lose our feelings of self-worth because of social programming we are buying into societies illusions concerning who is worthy and who is not. We are measuring ourselves by superficial standards set by society such as money, appearance profession etc, and not by our conscience, such as honesty, love, sincerity, selflessness etc.

2. Situations in which we reject ourselves because our * actions are not in alignment with our inner conscience *. We behave toward others, as we would not like them to behave toward us. Our answers to 10 and 11 inrepparttar 131365 first questionnaire might indicate such situations.

In such cases, we are interested in how we could react differently in those situations so that our behavior is in tune with our conscience.

In these second cases which have to do with conscience, we will most often find that we behave in such ways because we are being controlled byrepparttar 131366 previous categories if social beliefs.

For example we tell lies (matter of conscience) because we believe that our self-worth depends on what others think about us and thus want to hiderepparttar 131367 truth from them

The final solution forrepparttar 131368 matter of self-worth is to realize that all beings deserve love and respect exactly as they are regardless of all their flaws simply because they are unique aspects of divine creation- just as all flowers and all of nature.

In such a case, we must not confuse one?s ability and/or morality with worthiness of love and respect. As aspects of divine creation all deserve love and respect regardless of ability or morality.

The difference is that those who have ability deserve positions of greater responsibility that those without. While those without morality do deserve our love and respect they may not deserve trust or freedom to move about in society, until they are healed of their problem.

For more thoughts on this extremely vital and extensive subject click here.


(Adapted fromrepparttar 131369 "The Psychology of Happiness" by Robert Najemy available at http://www.Amazon.com and http://www.HolisticHarmony.com. This book and other writings can be viewed at http://www.HolisticHarmony.com where you can also download FREE articles and e-books.)

Robert Elias Najemy is the author of over 600 articles, 400 lecture cassettes on Human Harmony and 20 books, which have sold over 100,000 copies. He is the Founder and director of the Center for Harmonious Living in Greece with 3700 members. His book The Psychology of Happiness; ISBN 0-9710116-0-5 is available at www.amazon.com and http://www.HolisticHarmony.com. where you can view and download FREE articles and e-books.

Steps to Forgiveness

Written by Francoise Rapp

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To create each of these custom aromatic blends, addrepparttar essential oils to a 10-oz bottle and then add organic vegetable oil to fill.

******** Forgive Yourself ******** -3 drops Rose otto -8 drops Sandalwood -5 drops Geranium -4 drops Sage

Anointrepparttar 131362 heart chakra and solar plexus. Pour a few drops into your warm bath water and soak for at least 15 minutes. Pour a few drops intorepparttar 131363 palm of your hands and inhale deeply.

Affirmation: "Any negative or unhealthy attitudes from my part toward others are forgiven and healed."

******** Understanding ******** -3 drops Rose otto -6 drops Sandalwood -3 drops German Chamomile -5 drops Frankincense

Anointrepparttar 131364 heart chakra,repparttar 131365 solar plexus and third eye. Pour a few drops into your warm bath water and soak for at least 15 minutes. Pour a few drops intorepparttar 131366 palm of your hands and inhale deeply.

Affirmation: "I understand others and accept and love them for who they are."

In Good Health, Francoise Rapp http://www.aromalchemy.com

(c) Francoise Rapp, 2002. Discoverrepparttar 131367 life-transforming power of aromatherapy! Internationally renowned aromatherapist and alchemist, Francoise Rapp, shares her expertise through aromatherapy classes designed for working adults and in her free weekly ezine, The Arom'Alchemy Newsletter. All this and more can be found at http://www.aromalchemy.com.

Internationally renowned aromatherapist and alchemist Françoise Rapp shares her expertise each week in her free ezine, the Arom'Alchemy Newsletter. To subscribe, visit www.aromalchemy.com/education.

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