It need only be for a second. We are not suggesting you drift off in middle of an important meeting for minutes or hours. Just detach yourself from what is going on around you, think of your peaceful place and quickly refresh yourself. Quickly taking pressure out of a situation. Quickly avoiding that damaging argument. Listening to yourself will ensure that you don’t get dragged into thoughts and a words that you will regret. It gives you time to think before you open your mouth.

We are not suggesting for one moment that you change your personality and become an apathetic person who is happy to let world go by. The world needs people who are focussed on success and want to achieve all they can in their lifetime. All we are saying is that this method is a way of recharging your batteries. It stops you from getting overloaded and exploding or draining your batteries to such an extent that you damage yourself and make yourself ill. This is an aid memoir to assist you to strive on.

It is a way of giving yourself what you need to be successful in world. When all appears to be against you. When you don’t know which way to turn. When you find you are out of control. When you are about to reach for yet another drink to get you through day. Stop. Go inside and just listen. Please.

Graham and Julie www.desktop-meditation.com

So what exactly is indifference? to put it simply, its inablility to see others around us as they really are, because we are too much preoccupied with our selfish ambitions. I am not talking only about people who are starving or those who are victims of terrorists. These causes do claim a lot of lives, but indifference claims more.

Why don't we want to listen to people around us? Why don't we want to share with them their pain's and joy's? Because it involves a cost, a cost we have to pay ourselves. It's like working for free without any perks. Now why does somebody need to do that? I can do so many things thats going to benefit me right? And what do I get if I become less indifferent to others? Nothing! A Big Nothing! But in that answer lies truth of our happiness. Nothingness. Once we decide to become nothing for others, we realize we have nothing to lose. No time, no income, no pride to lose, and result being we become more concerned with others.

So how do I become nothing? Simple...Do nothing. Yes its as simple as that. Get rid of yourself, your goals, your ambitions and put people there. People in your workplace, people on street, people everywhere. Put them before you and step back and lo! you realize how important people are! How beautiful gift of life is!

And slowly a new beginning will dawn, within you, around you, and will see humanity in a whole new light......a beautiful glorious light......a light that will change course of your life.

But all this requires a beginiing, a Start. Don't read this and put it behind you or you wouldn't be any different from me i.e contradict yourself stuff.

Start now! I started by writing this