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They were at a party, to be sure—a big, loud party. But
party was really for benefit of everyone else in attendance. They were totally comfortable just sitting in their corner, out of limelight, watching people they loved having a good time.
As cynical as I’d become over years, something struck me at that moment as I watched that couple. I realized that weddings actually represent triumph of human spirit. Every marriage is a public statement by two people, letting whole world know that together, they choose to believe that their union will be one-in-two that lasts.
When thought of in that way, every wedding really symbolizes a victory of hope—in face of all odds. Sure, it’ll take all their courage and strength to succeed, but no matter what, couples continue to try.
They know statistics are against them—but they look straight into eyes of odds makers and say, “So what?”
And why not? Throughout history, people have staked their fortunes, and sometimes their very lives, on less than a 50-50 chance.
Maybe that’s why we hold so many weddings in month of June. It’s a month that can be unpredictable—full of warmth and promise one minute, and then suddenly becoming stormy and filled with uncertainty.
As for me, since seeing that couple, holding hands at their reception, I’ve begun singing my wedding solos with a renewed hope—embodied by two people at altar, vowing to face their future together, in spite of overwhelming odds.
© 2004. Gary E. Anderson. All rights reserved.
Gary Anderson is a freelance writer, editor, ghostwriter, and manuscript analyst, living on a small Iowa farm. He’s published more than 500 articles and four books. He’s also ghosted a dozen books, edited more than 30 full-length manuscripts, produced seven newsletters, and has done more than 800 manuscript reviews for various publishers around the nation. If you need writing or editing help, visit Gary’s website at www.abciowa.com.
