What is answer?

What can we do about this kind of thinking? How can you feel motivated to make changes? How can you help others get motivated to do something before it’s too late? Ask this compelling question. IS IT AS GOOD AS IT GETS YET?

Is your life as good as it gets yet?

Do you have a jump out of bed full of energy with a smile on your face kind of life? Why not? You deserve it. What are you waiting for? Or do you have a STAY IN BED with a smile on your face kind of relationship? Why not? What are you waiting for?

Don’t wait.

What are you waiting for? Are you waiting until you have more money, have more time, kids grow up, or you retire? Why kill time? You have only one life to live. You can have a great life right now.

You don’t wait until termites eat away foundation of your house. Why wait till your partner serves divorce papers? You don’t wait until tumor is inoperable. Why wait until your life or your job gets so bad you become depressed or sick? Don’t wait until it’s too late and you have nothing left but regret.

How do you start?

Decide what you want that you don’t have. Decide what you have that you don’t want. Write them down. Develop multiple action plans to get what you want or to solve problem. Decide what plan works best for you. Write it down. Begin to follow plan, step by step. Is your life as good as it gets yet? Why not. What are you waiting for?

What if you get stuck?

If you know that you want more, and you have a plan, but you get stuck, what can you do? Hire a coach. Is your life as good as it gets yet? Are you on way? If not, why not? You can do it. What are you waiting for?

We know that most individuals surviving cancer will try many complementary and alternative options to lengthen their lives. But did you know that studies have shown that women surviving breast cancer can double their survival time if they are involved in a close, intimate support network?

These and many other studies confirm fact that healthier relationships lead to better health, emotionally, physically and spiritually. Most of us did not learn effective interpersonal skills at home. So why do so few individuals consider relationship skills training right from start, before stress becomes chronic? Probably because we haven’t been made aware of facts.

The good news is that anyone can improve their relationships through learning simple skills including active or reflective listening, conflict resolution, behavioral changes, and thought management, among others. If you want less stress, and more fun and fulfillment in your life, consider exploring options for relationship skill building.

Whether relationship is past or present, personal or professional, you can make it better and get healthier in process.