4. If “marriage” is dead, why in world would one choose to have an affair? Talk about jumping from frying pan into fire. It really is stupid. You add a whole layer of deceit and shame that eventually will result in consequences more dire than approaching your spouse and saying, “I’m really unhappy. What I’m doing with you obviously is not working. I want out.” Oh well, maybe some people need more problems and suffering.

5. If “marriage” is bad, obviously, I don’t have to look at me. I can blame “it” or other. Some of us find it difficult to look at me. Some of us don’t know how to look at me. Some of us never think of looking at me.

Tip: If your partner/spouse is having and affair and blames it on “marriage,” don’t buy into it. The “marriage” is not problem. You are not problem. Your spouse/partner chose affair out of ignorance, fear or inadequacy.

The “My Marriage Made Me Do It” is just one of 7 affairs outlined in my E-book, “Break Free From Affair.” For more information on issues behind other kinds of affairs and tips for dealing with them, go to: http://www.break-free-from-the-affair.com