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Comparisons
No direction vs. No enthusiasm
Lack of leadership vs. Lack of supervision
Unclear goals vs. No motivation
Lack of clarity vs. Lack of energy
Example
Albert approach
task in a perfunctory manner, answering
phone on
4th or 5th ring at all, giving information reluctantly, and switching people to
wrong extension quite often.
The marketing department was desultory since
firing of their favorite manager. They weren't able to get
picture and didn't have adequate direction so, while they did their tasks well, they weren't making quotas and sales were falling far behind.
Key Point
A person can do a perfunctory job at a particular task and still be invested in
goal and project. If they are desultory, they aren't getting
whole picture at all, and likely to be perfunctory about everything, aimless and unmotivated. Any one can have an off day, but if desultory, every day is an off day.
Benefits
It's important not to mistake temporary lack of enthusiasm for an atmosphere where no one knows what they're doing.
Emotions motivate us and it’s important to understand
emotions of others, and how to manage them. In order to do this, first you must understand your own emotions and be able to manage them. This is what Emotional Intelligence is all about.

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