Is This Love or Emotional Dependency?

Written by Margaret Paul, Ph.D.

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The kind of person you will pick will be totally different when a loving adult is choosing than when your wounded self is choosing. The people we pick have a similar level of woundedness and a similar level of emotional health. Obviously,repparttar more you have done your inner work to connect with Divine Love and bring that love within to take loving care of yourself,repparttar 126082 more you will be attracted to someone also does this.

When you pick from your wounded self, you will pick someone whom you believe wantsrepparttar 126083 job of filling you up. The problem is thatrepparttar 126084 other person may be attempting to fill you up inrepparttar 126085 hopes that you will also fill up him or her. Two people who each want to get love rather than share love will eventually find themselves very disappointed with each other. They will each blamerepparttar 126086 other for not loving them inrepparttar 126087 way they want to be loved. When relationships break up, it is often because one or both partners are not taking responsibility for their own feelings and self-worth and are blamingrepparttar 126088 other for their resulting unhappiness.

If you are so attached to someone that you feel you can’t live without that person, try learning to give to yourself and others what it is you want from this person. Your job is to becomerepparttar 126089 person to yourself that you wantrepparttar 126090 other person to be. Then you will be able to be “in love” rather than “in need.” You will be able to love another person for who he or she is rather than for what this person can do for you. Instead of needing to get love, you can give love fromrepparttar 126091 heart forrepparttar 126092 joy of it and feel filled inrepparttar 126093 giving.

Margaret Paul, Ph.D. is the best-selling author and co-author of eight books, including "Do I Have To Give Up Me To Be Loved By You?" and “Healing Your Aloneness.” She is the co-creator of the powerful Inner Bonding healing process. Learn Inner Bonding now! Visit her web site for a FREE Inner Bonding course: or Phone Sessions Available.

The Brain Is Your Most Powerful Sex Organ

Written by J.B. Blount

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The best way to practice mental rehearsal for maximum sexual performance and enjoyment is to use advanced hypnotic programs to take you torepparttar optimal mental state. Hypnosis hasrepparttar 126081 unique ability to bypassrepparttar 126082 executive centers ofrepparttar 126083 brain (the frontal lobes) to directly communicate withrepparttar 126084 limbic brain. Hypnotherapy is particularly useful in reprogramming anxiety related symptoms by installing sophisticated instructions thoughrepparttar 126085 use of powerful imagery. High tech (PET) brain scans of hypnotized subjects have proven that hypnotism powerfully impactsrepparttar 126086 brain, giving control over pain responses and other basic bodily functions. With hypnotism, you can uncover your true sexual potential- radiant sensuality and absolutely ecstatic orgasms.

Anxiety and related issues do not have to ruin what can berepparttar 126087 greatest pleasure in life. Advanced hypnotherapy programs exist that can overcome problems with arousal and inability to achieve orgasm, as well common issues such as premature ejaculation and impotence. Hypnotherapy has a track record of success in this area, and these programs have been developed by an internationally renowned clinical hypnotherapist. They come with a full one year money back guarantee. Check out for details.

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