A person wanting success might give themselves permission to release family's attitude about success. For health issues, recognize that you don't need a parent's acceptance now. The subconscious won't change until it feels that you'll be safe. When you're able to make a new pattern feel more secure than old one, subconscious will mobilize its resources and accept new idea.

Contemplate your connection to Universe. The Universe wants best for you and will keep you safe when you rely on It. You are an individualized expression of Universe, and It has given Itself (as you) all you could ever desire. You just have to feel safe enough to accept it. The old patterns were just outdated ideas that helped you at a time when you needed them. You've outgrown them just as you've outgrown training wheels on your bicycle. The Universe provides everything you need for full, joyful experience of life.

When you're able to recognize how and why it hasn't felt safe to change, address those subconscious concerns by realizing that you're in a different space and time, and feel security of Universe, your subconscious will cooperate with you to expand into a greater experience of life.

Affirmation: The Universe provides me with everything that I need for a full, joyful, harmonious life. It's safe for me to change. My subconscious realizes that old ideas no longer serve me. I've outgrown need for old pattern. It's now appropriate for me to create new mental patterns. I feel secure and whole with my new mental, physical and emotional concepts and life. It's safe for me to expand into a greater experience of life

Look at both scenarios. There really is some *good* in good-bye. All we have to do is take control of situation and look forward to handling it beautifully. If we don't, we are letting situation take control of us.

Why not prepare for these situations? Why not, say, plan on moping and missing leaving loved one for a designated period of time -- like one hour, OK, maybe a day -- THEN get on with your lives so you will have plenty to share with them when they come back.

Why not, every time you start to miss him or her, retarget your thoughts to all good things that person is accomplishing with his or her life.

Realize now that you'd probably better start accomplishing things, too, or you won't have anything new to share with your loved one that is away growing and learning. Meet challenge head on, show your son or daughter, by example, how to act when one has to *let go* of someone they love. They are always learning from us.

~~~~~~~~~ Copyright 2003, Jan Tincher, All Rights Reserved Worldwide ~~~~~~~~~

Do you like learning techniques? Do you want more strategies that help you live life you want? Would you like to see MORE and learn special times to use them? Click here: Http://www.tameyourbrain.com/subscribe.php

==>Publishers, you are welcome to reprint this article in its entirety provided you retain above resource box and include this notice, plus notify us of day(s) you will be running it.