With this profound awareness, property line dispute began to look like a gift. We were both awed at way things show up in life to offer valuable lessons.

What’s happening in your outer world that might point to an opportunity to learn something about yourself? Where are you crossing your own internal boundaries and projecting them as “problems” with world?

Here are a few suggestions to help you clarify your own boundaries:

1. Look for irritations in your own life. Where does it appear as if problem lies outside of you? Take a look at what boundaries you might want to set for yourself.

2. It’s often not enough to just “set” your boundary; you need to communicate it as well. What good is having a boundary if no one knows about it?

3. Ask for help in maintaining your boundaries or your commitments to yourself. Can you enlist support of a friend or loved one to help keep you on track?

4. Be flexible with your boundaries. Having a wall around you isn’t goal. The intention of boundaries is to remind yourself that you deserve what’s important to you.

As session came to a close my client knew what he needed to do, both inside and out. He was already seeing creative ways to address and resolve conflict with his neighbor as well as reinstate practices that kept him balanced and focused.

I could sense his relief in having boundary lines clear after many years of tension. He went on his way feeling better and looking forward to living what he learned. Not only do good fences make good literal neighbors, they make us good neighbors within our self as well.

It’s YOUR life…imagine possibilities!

When it's your dream, you will move mountains to get there.

Even if you're involved in a cookie cutter program, find a way to make it your own. Publish a newsletter. Make a website giving information that isn't available on company site.

It's your business. It's your dream. Take ownership. Take pride. You are doing what most won't. You will get to places masses will only dream about.

Leaving masses is often a difficult thing to do. But it's what you have to do if you are going to become an uncommon success.

Pick up your faith and determination and trudge on.

Wishing you success, Carole ******************************************* Carole is owner and creator of award winning ConvenienceNet.com. For more articles like this, plus time saving tips, recipes and more; subscribe to The Juggling Act. Because you have a business and a life. mailto: jugglingact@A1eBiz.com

Carole is the creator of the award winning ConvenienceNet.com. Formerly a telco exec. Carole found opportunity luring her to the Internet. "It's been a struggle, but I'm doing what I love to do. I don't think I can go back to corporate life."