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Torture is
ultimate act of perverted intimacy. The torturer invades
victim's body, pervades his psyche, and possesses his mind. Deprived of contact with others and starved for human interactions,
prey bonds with
predator. "Traumatic bonding", akin to
Stockholm Syndrome, is about hope and
search for meaning in
brutal and indifferent and nightmarish universe of
torture cell.
The abuser becomes
black hole at
center of
victim's surrealistic galaxy, sucking in
sufferer's universal need for solace. The victim tries to "control" his tormentor by becoming one with him (introjecting him) and by appealing to
monster's presumably dormant humanity and empathy.
This bonding is especially strong when
torturer and
tortured form a dyad and "collaborate" in
rituals and acts of torture (for instance, when
victim is coerced into selecting
torture implements and
types of torment to be inflicted, or to choose between two evils).
The psychologist Shirley Spitz offers this powerful overview of
contradictory nature of torture in a seminar titled "The Psychology of Torture" (1989):
"Torture is an obscenity in that it joins what is most private with what is most public. Torture entails all
isolation and extreme solitude of privacy with none of
usual security embodied therein... Torture entails at
same time all
self-exposure of
utterly public with none of its possibilities for camaraderie or shared experience. (The presence of an all powerful other with whom to merge, without
security of
other's benign intentions.)
A further obscenity of torture is
inversion it makes of intimate human relationships. The interrogation is a form of social encounter in which
normal rules of communicating, of relating, of intimacy are manipulated. Dependency needs are elicited by
interrogator, but not so they may be met as in close relationships, but to weaken and confuse. Independence that is offered in return for 'betrayal' is a lie. Silence is intentionally misinterpreted either as confirmation of information or as guilt for 'complicity'.
Torture combines complete humiliating exposure with utter devastating isolation. The final products and outcome of torture are a scarred and often shattered victim and an empty display of
fiction of power."
Obsessed by endless ruminations, demented by pain and a continuum of sleeplessness –
victim regresses, shedding all but
most primitive defense mechanisms: splitting, narcissism, dissociation, Projective Identification, introjection, and cognitive dissonance. The victim constructs an alternative world, often suffering from depersonalization and derealization, hallucinations, ideas of reference, delusions, and psychotic episodes.
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Sam Vaknin is the author of Malignant Self Love - Narcissism Revisited and After the Rain - How the West Lost the East. He is a columnist for Central Europe Review, PopMatters, and eBookWeb , a United Press International (UPI) Senior Business Correspondent, and the editor of mental health and Central East Europe categories in The Open Directory Bellaonline, and Suite101 .
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