Incorporate Humor in Your Next Speech

Written by Stephen D. Boyd


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4. Begin with something short. A starting point might be to summarize a cartoon and giverepparttar caption as your humor. A thought-provoking yet clever line about a point you are making is another way to get started. For example, when I talk about creativity and getting out of your comfort zone, a line I found that worked well was, “Orville Wright did not have a pilot’s license.” In your reading, look for lines that make you smile; consider how they might be used in your next speech. Be careful about launching into a long humorous story--audiences are quick to forgive a single line that may not be funny, but they do not have much patience with a long anecdote that isn’t worthrepparttar 120277 time. So start out with brief bits of humor. 5. When possible, choose humor that comes from people you interact with. You do not have to worry about people having heard it before, and you will feel more comfortable with what has happened to you. Find such experiences by looking for a humorous line or situation. For example, I was making a bank deposit recently at a drive-in window. When I asked to make a second deposit,repparttar 120278 teller said solemnly, “I’m sorry, sir, but you’ll have to go aroundrepparttar 120279 bank a second time to make a second deposit.” We both laughed and I may have a line to work into a speech. If you have small children, listen for something they say that might be funny to an audience as well. Art Linkletter made a great living onrepparttar 120280 notion that “Kids sayrepparttar 120281 darndest things.” 6. Don’t preview by saying, “Let me tell you a funny story.” Letrepparttar 120282 audience decide for themselves. Look pleasant and smile as you launch into your funny line, but if no one smiles or laughs then just move on as though you meant for it to be serious. This approach takesrepparttar 120283 pressure off as you relaterepparttar 120284 humor. Remember you are not a comedian entertainingrepparttar 120285 audience; you are a serious speaker seeking to helprepparttar 120286 audience remember and pay attention by using humor as a tool. Humor is simply another way of making a point with your audience, and it can help you be a more effective speaker. Look at humor as a tool in improving your speech inrepparttar 120287 manner of attention devices, smooth transitions, and solid structure. Remember, “A smile is a curve that straightens out a lot of things.”

Stephen D. Boyd, Ph.D., CSP, is a professor of speech communication at Northern Kentucky University in Highland Heights, Kentucky. He works with organizations that want to speak and listen more effectively to increase personal and professional performance. He can be reached at 800-727-6520 or visit http://www.sboyd.com for free articles and resources to improve your communication skills.


How to Get the Right Clients and Avoid the Wrong Ones

Written by Charlie Cook


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Use Your Marketing Message People are far more likely to contact you when they have a clear idea of who you help and how. Increaserepparttar number of qualified prospects who contact you with an effective marketing message and you'll reducerepparttar 120276 number of "tire kickers" who waste your time.

Use Articles Write and distribute an article and/or provide it on your web site, to help people understand your approach, who you help and how you can help them. Prospects who like and agree with your thinking will want to contact you and work with you.

Use Questions to Qualify Prospects You can't be everything to everybody and it's a waste of time to try. Create a short list of questions to qualify prospects. Use these questions when you call them onrepparttar 120277 phone and inrepparttar 120278 service inquiry forms you provide on your web site. If prospects don't meet your criteria, you can keep them on your mailing list, but avoid wasting your time by calling them.

If you've called one of them and they don't seem like a good prospect, get offrepparttar 120279 phone in 3 minutes or less and move on to a more promising prospect.

Clarify Expectations It is tempting to want to sign up every prospect that wants to work with you. This is particularly true when you are just starting up your business or when business is slow. But before you close a deal or sign an agreement, make sure they clearly understand what you will do and when. You don't want them emailing you every five minutes or expecting you'll answer their phone calls at two inrepparttar 120280 morning or provide additional services for free.

Make a short list of questions to ask that will help clients define what they are looking for. When you talk with clients use these questions to clarify their expectations. If you can meet these requests, use their answers to provide a summary of services. That way you will both be working fromrepparttar 120281 same script.

Get Rid of Problem Clients With only a limited number of hours a day and years in your life, you'll be happier and more profitable if you focus your marketing on clients that understand and appreciate your expertise. They'll be far more likely to return and refer you to others. If you have clients who are unpleasant to work with or are taking up too much of your time, find a way to tactfully get them to look elsewhere.

Use these marketing strategies to position your firm to attractrepparttar 120282 prospects you want so you can pick and choose your clients. You'll have more fun, increase your profits and be more successful.

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The author, Charlie Cook, helps service professionals and small business owners attract more clients and be more successful. Sign up for the Free Marketing Plan eBook, '7 Steps to get more clients and grow your business' at http://www.marketingforsuccess.com


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