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To further illustrate, here is a simple example: Your young daughter is in
second grade and tonight she has her first play opening. She is
innocent bunny, but your Friday nights have historically been designated for haning out and drinking with
guys.
Quite a dilemma, huh?
Should I see my daughter’s first play performance or should I let my super important friends down because if I do, I might lose one or two of them since I’m not a ‘gamer’. You think this will inevitaly ruin or dent up my social life.
Hmmmm...
Well if
answer is to go to
bar with your friends, you are slowly or quickly ruining what should be
most precious relationships to you. Your daughter and partner. If it was not even a question and you wouldn’t have missed her play for
world, then you’d be surprised how many selfish people would have picked
social situation.
This example is one of a million I could have come up with that determines your higher and lower values in life. Deciding what's more important to you and committing yourself consistently to this mindset.
It is not as important
farther you go down
list of high values, but your number one and two are of
utmost importance.
Try to make certain it’s not you at numero uno!
Being selfless is a mindset, especially towards your family and living life with an empathetic attitude toward
rest of
world, creates a more harmonious existence. Moreover, this will eventually speak volumes about your character and lessen
burden of guilt that can eat away at your very core.
If you strive to live cleaner, not a necessarily more boring existance, you’ll want to examine your highest and lowest values in your life everyday and vow to maintain their order. They will keep you mentally healthy and always progressing.
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Brian is a relationship specialist who views life as a logical journey that should be treated as such. "It is not something that should be taken for granted in any capacity"