•Suspicious withdrawals from checking or savings accounts

•Unusual or unexplained ATM withdrawals.

•Credit card bills with unusual charges made at jewelry stores, boutiques, or women’s specialty stores.

•Receipts for gift items that you didn’t personally receive.

•Receipts or charge slips for two identical gift items.

•Hidden gifts obviously intended for someone other than you – too large or small for you, a color or style he knows you’d never wear, gifts with another woman’s name attached.

•Giving gifts of an extremely personal nature to or from another woman.

•Receiving gifts of a personal nature from another woman

•Giving a disproportionately expensive gift to a woman who is supposedly a casual friend or business acquaintance.

•Receiving a very expensive gift from any female other than yourself or a family member.

Gifts are just one of 21 categories of telltale signs which can expose a cheating husband. (visit http://www.IsHeCheatingOnYou.com to see a detailed list with descriptions of 21 categories of telltale signs) “Is He Cheating On You? – 829 Telltale Signs lists dozens of other cheating signs. To find them, all you need are your eyes and ears, your personal knowledge of your husband, and information contained in book.

If your husband is giving gifts to other women and receiving gifts in return, your marriage could be in serious jeopardy -- especially if you find other telltale signs. The future of your marriage may depend on your ability to recognize signs of infidelity in time.

© Ruth Houston All rights reserved.

NOTE: The information in this article is condensed from a longer article which appears at www.IsHeCheatingOnYou.com

December 7, 1986, dressed in an ivory colored Victorian gown, I was driven to our wedding in a horse drawn carriage. I remember sensation well. As I heard clip-pity clop of hoofs hitting pavement I felt it was happiest day of my life. The ride was several miles long and I enjoyed cars honking loudly at every turn. When we arrived at elegant Alamo Square Inn Bryan was waiting to escort me inside to nuptials. It was a good thing he took my hand, for as I exited carriage, my knees collapsed from shaking so hard. The day was spectacular marking a lifetime of love.

Both Bryan and I had always wanted kids. By time we met my biological clock had run out. He told me he would rather marry a woman he loved deeply than to wait for someone to bear his children. For several years we were content to be a unit of two. After my dear Aunt Letha died in 1992 I longed for a child. I knew we would be good parents. Bryan agreed to adoption. It was an arduous experience requiring patience and resilience. We had several birthmothers who changed their minds for different reasons. This process took three years and a great deal of money. Ultimately we were blessed with a baby girl we named Mariah. Our daughter is now 8 years old and light of our life.

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Bryan continues to be my rock, strength and loving support. During our years together I have had many tragedies including: my brother John’s suicide in 1988, my ex- husband Joey’s death from alcoholism in 1989, and my girlfriend Debra’s suicide in 2002. I was hospitalized with a potentially life threatening blood clot in my lungs in 1998. Bryan stood by me through all of these. I married a great guy! I am a fortunate woman to have found true love in heart of a younger man.

Age is but a notch on tree of life. Does it really matter that I have more than he. We are all on a spiritual path. We choose lovers, friends and family to mirror our soul’s development. Partners of different ages can accelerate this growth. These diverse emotional experiences are opportunities of a lifetime. Let’s enjoy them.

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