How to successfully rise to the occasion!

Written by Caroline Jalango


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Don’t sell yourself short by trying to copy everyone else or packaging your product inrepparttar same, old and boring way. People are tired ofrepparttar 123489 conventional way of doing things. Remember that you are unique and you don’t have to be anyone else to succeed. You will only comfortably rise torepparttar 123490 occasion when you remain true to yourself and deliver how you know best. 3. Be confident. If you have to rise torepparttar 123491 occasion, your confidence must be evident in your voice and your body language. It’s okay to be nervous. Just don’t let it show in your voice, or in your behavior. Get yourself together. This isrepparttar 123492 moment that you have been waiting for.

People can sense a lack of confidence and nervous energy. If you come across as confident, it will be easier for a prospect to believe you and buy into your idea. Lack of confidence on your part will putrepparttar 123493 credibility ofrepparttar 123494 product or service you are offering in question. 4. Focus onrepparttar 123495 value of your product or service. Stay connected torepparttar 123496 importance ofrepparttar 123497 product or service you are selling and remind yourself ofrepparttar 123498 value that it will bring to those who buy it.

Reconnect withrepparttar 123499 initial vision of you had about this product or service. Think about how far you have come and how much you have worked to get to this point in your life. This isrepparttar 123500 big moment that you have been waiting for. Encourage yourself and rise torepparttar 123501 occasion!

5. Detach your emotions from negative outcomes. Life patterns are cyclical and on some days you will succeed and on others you will fail. Some days are good and others bad. Celebraterepparttar 123502 good outcomes and improve on them. Don’t beat yourself up overrepparttar 123503 negative outcomes. It’s not worth it.

The only thing to learn from failure is how not to do it again. Consider it good practice forrepparttar 123504 next time.

Caroline is a life coach for women who have a real desire to find their passion and to excel. Women who need to come out of the shadows and into the limelight of living their lives to the fullest potential and women who need wings to fly. She coaches women to discover who they are, explore what they can be and take action to achieve their goals. Free coaching session available. Caroline@motivationzone.com


Growth from Discontent ... Life's way of giving you a little push.

Written by Edward B. Toupin


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Growth occurs because you feel a push, or pull, to move in a direction. The objective is to obtain a balance such thatrepparttar discontent disappears. Once you achieverepparttar 123488 necessary change, you will be able to leaverepparttar 123489 discontented feelings behind you. Focus onrepparttar 123490 situation that makes you feelrepparttar 123491 discontent, not on other issues that may, or may not, make you feel better. The contented feeling from "doing busy work" or fixing something that isn't broken is fleeting, unless you tacklerepparttar 123492 core issue.

The growth comes in once you embracerepparttar 123493 change. When you move from an area ofrepparttar 123494 familiar, you must learn something new or different to adapt torepparttar 123495 unfamiliar. However, in this transition, you are putting your life back in balance and moving forward, which eliminates those feelings of discontent.

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Don't let discontent drag you down! Listen to your gut! It will always tell you when change is necessary. It might be a simple gnawing feeling or a twisted knot. In either case, be honest with yourself and trust that feeling. Discontent isrepparttar 123496 universe's way of telling you that a change is necessary within yourself to resolverepparttar 123497 situation. It is there to warn you of situations and guide you when things need to change.

To makerepparttar 123498 change, you have to know where you are and where you want to be inrepparttar 123499 near future. However,repparttar 123500 one thing to keep in mind is that you want to achieve some type of balance to counterrepparttar 123501 discontent. Remember that discontent is caused from an imbalance in one or more parts of your life. Ask yourself, and focus on, what it is that is causing yourepparttar 123502 most concern. Once you are able to determinerepparttar 123503 issue, only then can you set out on a goal that satisfiesrepparttar 123504 feeling. Such an approach will not only restore balance, but it will also allow you to move forward to a more fulfilling life.

Edward B. Toupin is an author, life-strategy coach, counselor, and technical writer living in Las Vegas, NV. Among other things, he authors books and articles on topics ranging from career success through life organization and fulfillment. For more information, e-mail Edward at etoupin@toupin.com or visit his sites at http://www.toupin.com or http://www.make-life-great.com.


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