In every conversation, there is always one person who is reacting more than other. The person who reacts less (i.e., is more relaxed of two) is more dominant, or alpha, person.

The person trying to win other's approval is one who's more attracted. So a girl will struggle to make small talk and keep conversation going as long as your value is higher than hers.

Women are attracted to men who are a challenge for them. If at some point it becomes clear that you're trying to win her approval, then there's no longer a challenge for her and she loses interest.

Keep alpha status and stay in control of situation right from beginning. Make sure to not ever react too much to what a girl says. Always remain more relaxed than her.

So answer to best way to begin a conversation with a woman is this: Don't try. Don't care what she thinks. Just say whatever you want.

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John Alexander is author of easy way to talk to girls. http://www.becomingalpha.com

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Let's say, to use a recent example I encountered, that she shops at local Whole Foods grocery store.

You can then say, "That's awesome. I shop there too. Imagine, we've probably seen each other there all time!"

Another example would be that two of you go to downtown LA all time, and probably have walked past each other on many occasions.

And now, you can say, "Isn't it amazing how fate has finally brought us together?"

As conversation progresses, two of you can talk about other coincidences, and things two of you might have done together if you'd only known each other.

With seed planted, as girl thinks about those coincidences, and how "fate" has now brought two of you together, she will then start to feel as if she's known you, on a deeper psychic level, for a lot longer than just a few hours.

You, she concludes, are man she's been waiting for all her life.

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John Alexander is author of 7 Step Seduction System that takes you from saying " rel="nofollow"hello" to a new woman... to sharing orgasms in bed with her... in just one evening! http://www.becomingalpha.com

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