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What do you say to yourself, when your brain is listening and sends you away to those targets? You can´t hide yourself from your brain. It doesn´t matter if you´re whispering, it doesn´t matter if you’re just “thinking.”
You are already familiar with that! That is obvious and well known to
global world. Is it hard to keep your focus? Conventional goal setting is overrated. If you are surprised about that, don´t complain to ourself.
It´s a natural process that you have to consider. The problem with a lack of focus is often a consequence of a lack of motivation. A lack of motivation is more often a conflict in relation to your values than a lack of goals. Important note: There is a close relation between your values and your motivation. Just count how many times you´ve said to people, "You have to set your goals before you...?"
Honestly; how many times have you told people; "You have to go through your values to see if they are in good relation to
area you intend to enter” ….well…do your math!
“Our values influence our motivation. If we don´t have strongly held values, we´ll have little motivation. If our values are strong, our motivation will be equally strong.” Andreas & Faulkner (1999).
Could a lack of focus and a lack of motivation in a higher degree explain why 95% fail with internet business? A tip, I don't think money is enough to entice, attract, or tempt those people. That only works at
very beginning. The business or life opportunities that offer have to be formed with other or complementary values. A failure of 95% is probably a lack of values, not a lack of goals or work.
So dear reader, what does it matter if we soak up tons and tons of advice, and then let it pass right through
brain cells, without giving it a second thought? Reading advice and suggestions in business and in life isn´t enough unless we´re prepared to take
next step, and put that advice into motion.
You can make an outstanding offer, or you can enroll to a very good one, in business or in life. If your values don’t relate positively to that offer, it is hard to “sign up.” If you, against your values, accept
offer,
“reality” will knock you at your back, sooner or later. Your feelings will let you know, your stomach will begin to say, “There is something wrong. There is something you can´t handle and your motivation will be reduced more and more to
final “end up.” And, here is an important distinction, if you do not succed, it will be you who will become criticized, not
offer.
There is also another point to consider. If you would like to have your motivation to be more lasting, it has to come from you inside, as you already know, but empty external offers can´t compete with that.
Outer or external offers have to bring stronger values to compete with
inner lack of motivation. No empty values, only values that can relate to
individual’s model of
world. It is fundamental you know that, because
inner engine,
inner power station can´t keep on going with lack of fuel.
If you are an opportunity-maker, it would be nice if you can spice up your offer. Because you can´t do anything about it if you don´t strengthen your opportunity, as in a higher degree fits to
individual’s values and/or model of
world. It´s only
individual who is in
position to compromise or change his own values.
All
“$$$$ internet opportunities” “Guaranteed” “Free, as you have to pay for” don´t value
potential customer, affiliate or associate in such a degree that s/he is prepared to make any changes in
first place. They deserve another input.
WYSIWYG, what you see is what you get. WYHIWYG, what you hear is what you get, WYFIWYG, what you feel is what you get, WYTIWYG, what you think is what you get, WYFIWYG, what you focus on is what you get. No one should be surprised, and we all have a choice.
That´s probably why
world is
way it is. So then, when you like to have a lasting and/or higher degree of motivation, dissect your values and approve it to your operations or
area you intend to enter. Don´t restrict yourself until you find what you´re looking for. Ask yourself; "what do I feel, what do I hear, what do I see?" Imagine yourself working through
entire concept. What´s important here is how you experience body/soul. Don´t forget your body. Let your body talk. Listen and take
answers seriously. You have to be honest with yourself. You can never cheat your body.
If you´re not satisfied, make
changes needed. If you´re satisfied, make your decision. Next step, set your goals and get started.
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