How to Ask for the Help You Need

Written by Jim M. Allen


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7. Make one request at a time. Asking for help, assistance, changes, etc., is fine, but don't overwhelm a person with multiple requests all at once.

8. Makerepparttar request clear and distinct. If there's an exact way it needs to be done, letrepparttar 131332 person know. Give them allrepparttar 131333 information to make a good decision, but also so they can really do what you need them to do.

9. Trustrepparttar 131334 person to dorepparttar 131335 right thing. If you've made your request clear andrepparttar 131336 person has said that they'll do it, expect they'll do it correctly. Don't follow them around and hound them about it.

10. Say "Thank you." (Even if they turn you down.)

Jim Allen is a professional life & business coach. For more ideas, subscribe to his free bi-weekly ezine, THE BIG IDEA, by sending a blank email to: SubscribeGA@CoachJim.com


The Ten Misconceptions of Success

Written by Jim M. Allen


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Success rarely occurs in a vacuum. Recognizerepparttar people who help you become successful, there are plenty of them.

6. It takes a lot of luck to be successful.

It takes some luck to be successful, sure. It takes a lot more hard work, diligence, knowledge, and application.

7. It's only success if you make a lot of money.

Money is just one of many benefits to success, but it's not guaranteed.

8. It's only success if everybody knows it.

You may get more money and more accoladesrepparttar 131330 more people know about what you've done. But, even if you wererepparttar 131331 only one who knew it, you'd still be a success.

9. Success is a goal.

Success is more what you get when you achieverepparttar 131332 goals you've set for yourself. Saying that you "want to be a success" begsrepparttar 131333 question: "At what?"

10. Once I'm successful, my troubles are over.

You may be successful, but you're not God. You'll still haverepparttar 131334 ups and downs that you did before. Enjoy what success you achieve and live each day as it comes.

Jim Allen is a professional life & business coach. For more ideas, subscribe to his free bi-weekly ezine, THE BIG IDEA, by sending a blank email to: SubscribeGA@CoachJim.com


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