In any conversation, ability to give respect is just as important as receiving it. The art of conversation is a give and take between parties, not one speaker and one listener.

4. Any conversation can be broken down into three parts.

The first part is small talk. Small talk is dictated by social rules and includes polite greetings, inquiries about well-being of others, etc.

Stage two is end of small talk and moving on to purpose of conversation such as business, sharing of opinions and personal views.

Without ability to express yourself efficiently, conversation can easily slip back into small talk, lessening chances of accomplishing initial goal of conversation.

The third part of a conversation is where various ideas and views expressed can be merged into a satisfying end for all parties involved in conversation.

The art of conversation is a learned skill that is common among successful, energetic people. If you are unable to effectively express yourself in any situation, you will likely find that you do not attract attention and command respect that is bestowed upon some others.

People who talk freely and easily with others usually find more professional and personal fulfillment than those who are introverted and silent.

If you want to improve your professional and social standing, learn to communicate efficiently and in a positive manner.

You will notice a dramatic difference in way other people perceive you if you demonstrate self-confidence and project a friendly, informed image.

16. Learn how to sleep. Sleep soundly, then work refreshed.

17. Skip desserts.

18. Stop smoking.

19. Write notes or letters while waiting for others.

20. Always carry an envelope with paper in it and a few stamps.

21. Combine tasks which are done in same area.

22. Be prompt for all appointments.

23. Lay out your clothes night before.(I need to remember this myself)

24. Call on specialists to do work that you cannot do efficiently

25. Learn to read more rapidly.

26. Take a nap after dinner. Then take a shower. Begin evening hours relaxed and refreshed.

27. Avoid interruptions.

28. Avoid making a big production out of tiny tasks.

29. Search out job shortcuts.

30. Know your limitations.

31. Work to your full capacity. I know it’s tough to break bad habits. However, it is necessary to make sacrifices so that your business can be successful. Don’t try to implement all of these ideas at once. Implement them one at a time and repeat them until they become a part of your daily routine.

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Copyright 2004 DeAnna Spencer

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